I have a rly big crush on someone and I don't think he rly likes me... I mean, we're in the same class, but he's like 'popular' and i'm like a 'smarty' to him. He probably doesn't wanna talk to me! what do i do?
2007-01-14 08:56:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my advice is to make an effort to talk to him. try to get into conversations with him, and add in to them. put out an effort, not desperately though, you know? get to know him. you guys could hit it off! try to find out what you guys have in common, and it will most likely bring you two closer! if it's working then, your relationship will start furthering, and then ask him to hang out, as a friendly gesture, unless he has already asked you :) i think you should become friends, and if it's meant to be more than that, you both will know. if it's just a friends sort of realtionship, or not even, you guys will know. good luck with it all! :)
2007-01-14 09:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him! Get to know him as a friend first. When you two have established a connection, and you feel more comfortable talking to him, invite him to do something with you. Anything. For example, my friends and I always went out for lunch after school if there was a half-day. Ask him to join you for lunch (alone or with friends). Or if there's a test coming up, ask about studying together. And if there's a group project, you can try to get into his group.
Don't worry just yet about being a couple. When I don't get to know someone first, it doesn't work out for more than a few months, if I'm lucky. In the meantime, feel free to e-mail me and talk about how it goes! I've got a little crush of my own.
2007-01-14 09:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say HI. its the perfect ice breaker. Then talk to hmi a little find out what he lieks where he hangout. Then jsut ASK him if he wants to do something. Its not nearly as difficult as youwould think. Hes a guy. He'll dig the attention.
2007-01-14 08:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not say you've a boyfriend or have someone act as your boyfriend. that is truly shallow. in simple terms be truthful and truthful, regardless of if it hurts him. do not tell him you don't want a boyfriend, it will smash him once you do get a boyfriend not lengthy once you rejected the boy. in simple terms tell him your emotions are of a buddy and that you're very sorry that you won't be able to go back his emotions. that is all.
2016-11-23 18:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key is being funny & flirtacious. Act like you like him but not. Maybe make your self really pretty that morning (but dont change your self) Try to be around him alot. Ask him ? about his self. & if that doesnt work Plan B: i find that if you tell a guy this "OMG i had this weird dream about you last night" & make it funny and cute by him like rescuing you or somthing it will win his heart. even if you have to lie he doesnt have to know. & then say wow you are soo funny or your really cool & ask him for his # or somthing or screen name or email. flirt with him there too. then finally ask casually "we should sooo hang out somtime...are you bussy saturday?" if that doesnt work the boy isnt ready to be in love. hope i can help
2007-01-14 09:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Chevy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gradually start talking to him. say like' man this class is boring. i hate this class' and just make small talk. then start talking more and try to get to know him, then become his friend, then after a little ,see if you still like him and ask him
2007-01-14 09:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and get to know him before you ask him out or anything. all that talking will lead to him walking with you in the hallways and eventually him (or you) asking him out (or you finding out that you dont really like him)
2007-01-14 09:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by East-coast Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont!!! I dont know about you but to me its very degrading when a girl asks a guy out! It's so not romantice!
2007-01-14 09:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by ice_07angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave a piece of your clothing in his locker or car! he will get the message
2007-01-14 08:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by alanc_59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up and say hi my name is___. And just take it from there.
2007-01-14 09:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋