Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two years. Within the first six months of our relationship, i cheated on him with a old friend. He wasn't mad or anything because he told me that he had been doing his own thing too. But 3 months ago i cheated on him again but with a different guy. After i told him this he told he that he cheated on me with a unknown female bacause he had a feeling that i had cheated on him.When we are together he tells me how much he loves and want things to work out. But when we are on the phone he talks about he doesnt think he can do this(relationship).
2007-01-14 08:21:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think ye need to sit down and talk about this properly, cheating in my opinion means you have doubts about the other person, you need to decide do you really want to be with your boyfriend or free to have any man you please, it seems he only cheated to get his own back on you, fellas are very strange and the fact that you've cheated twice im sure will really have got him thinking and feeling insecure wondering what he is doing wrong, and this is probably why he says it on the phone as he is away from you and thinking about things. So you need to think long and hard about what you want and then sit your fella down and talk
2007-01-14 08:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Shiv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits. I don't mean to sound harsh, but neither one of you are trustworthy. Cheating on someone doesn't only hurt the person you are "committed" to, but it's dangerous; what would happen if you/your boyfriend caught a disease? You two are in a risky situation of your own doing and at this point it's probably best for both of you to admit your wrongs, forgive eachother, and move on. You both deserve to be with someone who holds your full attention. Good luck on this one.
2007-01-14 08:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by mycatslinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cheating on you because he thought you may have cheated isn't really the best way to handle a situation. Still, if you two are cheating on each other alot, it may be time to reevaluate whether you can commit to one guy and rethink your feelings toward you bf.
2007-01-14 08:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relationship will never work you both are cheaters, no way whats really going on is he don't want you and you don't want him but neither one of you want to say it. you two are bad for each other. he is not cheating because you are he is cheating because he is a cheater and so are you. he will except your cheating as long as you except his, and he is okay with it.
2007-01-14 08:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship will never work unless you guys have a strong will not to cheat
2007-01-14 08:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by firekat_96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are cheaters and should not be in a relationship.
2007-01-14 08:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋