My boyfriend is threatening to dump me because i refused to take things to another level (sex). So is he implying that that's what relationships are all about? And i was brought up in a family that believes in keeping values so i do believe that sex is for MARRIED couples and i'm still young anyway. Everytime he acts all nicey-nice and when i ask him what exactly he wants...sex!!! I really don't know why i have to go through this all the time, he'll the third guy who i'd have split with because i won't do what he wants and because he doesn't respect my feelings. Help me out people, please....and no it's not an issue about age difference, we're both teens.
2007-01-14 06:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by Georgina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
four words " GET RID OF HIM!!!"
2007-01-14 07:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your both young and hormones are raging with him. Well I'm 25 and I still have the same problem but maturity comes with age as well. Basically sex should only be a factor when you both feel ready. If you feel you should keep you abstinence till marriage then that would be what you should do. Someone pressuring you always to have sex might give you the idea that the relationship might not last anyways because hes thinking very one sided. You don't need that crap anyways girly girl. Virginity is a very good thing to have. Don't just waste it on some guy that doesn't have the respect to allow you to be abstinent till your ready.
2007-01-14 06:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some people, sex is an extremely important component of romance. That said, someone that doesn't share you feelings about intimacy only after marriage isn't likely to be some you would want to form a long term relationship with. Your values are just too different.
That, of course, is just giving him the benefit of the doubt. He could just be trying to get into your pants. Unfortunate, but true.
2007-01-14 06:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Airplane... DON'T GIVE IN!!! As a man, I want to marry a woman who has saved herself for one man. I don't want a woman who jumps from bed to bed trying to find security between the sheets, cause it ain't there. Sex is wonderful... with the person you're married to. Dump the jerk and move on. Dress and act modestly and eventually you'll find a man who loves your mind and heart first. Your body will follow.
2007-01-14 06:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Total BS. What does sex have to do with his feelings for you as a person? If he really has feelings for you, he will respect yours. Sounds like he's just being selfish. Even if you do break up with him, keep looking. There are nice considerate guys out there, believe me who will love you and not just your body.
2007-01-14 06:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tori M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you want different things out of the relationship, then you are not compatible. You should seek someone with the same values as you and let him find another girl that would fulfill his sexual needs.
2007-01-14 06:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by bullet_to_the_brain 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave him....sex IS very important but theres nothing wrong with waiting....i'm a guy and me personally i WONT have sex with a girl until we're both in love and its a promising relationship. but most guys arent like me so uhh yeah lol. tell him if he cares about u he'll wait and quit pressuring u....tell him he's not getting it so stop harassing u and if he doesnt like it theres the door.
2007-01-14 06:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should find some one that will wait if he truely cares for you then he will wait but if not then he is not for you and keep looking your not doing anything wrong you just want the right person to give it to. I know what your feeling so just hold on.
2007-01-14 06:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by genesis b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's all he's interested in. DUMP HIM. Stick to your guns. If you are not ready, DON'T DO IT. ..You said it, he doesn't respect you or your feelings. If he did, he wouldn't press the issue.
To I: why doncha quit posting that feeble website for every answer. It's getting OLD fast.
2007-01-14 06:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well then i would dump him...you need to find someone who respects you and your values...trust me there are some out there...good luck
2007-01-14 06:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its hard but u have to keep rejecting them. and u should avoid being alone with a guy in a room or at night. go to a park or someplace else to hang out.
2007-01-14 06:33:23 · answer #11 · answered by san s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋