crazy, i know
there's this guy, i met him at college. over like a month he's asked me out on several dates, but thing is, he's done nothing about it, he hasn't even kissed me....i know he likes me, just the things he does and asking me out many a time sure doesn't make it obvious....i really like him too! he's great. so anyway, i don't know if i should...i don't particularly want to since it's been quite a while and i would like him to, i just like it that way. so what do yous think...
p.s. gay? nahhh
2007-01-14 06:19:51 · 20 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah, he's not really shy
2007-01-14 06:24:31 · update #1
sure if you wanna get maced
2007-01-14 06:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by azflyboy6477 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do it! My current bf was the same way. Never even tried to kiss me or touch me, but when I made the first move, he took over from there. He later told me he is just really shy and is afraid of being pushy or of getting rejected so he won't make a move for a long time until he's absolutely sure the girl is interested.
2007-01-14 14:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its possible for u to wait a little longer I think u should and if he still does not do anything then u should make the first move cuz maybe he is a little shy or something cuz some guys are like that and women have to make the first move.
2007-01-14 14:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by miley_fan9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'd say wait one more date and if doesn't happen by then it's ok to make a move
if he like pushes you away chances are he doesn't like u as much as u thought
or he's gay..
2007-01-14 14:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and ask him out. Why not?
Even if it doesn't evolve into a romance, why not go out and make a great friend?
Have a great time with him. If he turns out gay, you still have a great friend.
Good luck
2007-01-14 14:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by minion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait wait wait....a college guy hasnt made a move in a month? Leave him now, something is wrong with him. We genereally make moves in a few hours.
2007-01-14 14:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask him? If you've gone out on several dates surely it's okay to discuss intimacy and each of your feelings about it...perhaps he's quite old fashioned, or shy, or who knows...talk about it...
2007-01-14 14:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could start slow and just give him a kiss on the cheek so maybe he will see your interested in him..then if nothing happens..next date just kiss him..and see what happens..he might be too shy to give you a kiss..maybe he needs you to be the first to initiate it.
2007-01-14 14:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by Heather S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait for a week. He is probably waiting for the right time to tell you. But if he still does nothing than you should tell him how you feel!
2007-01-14 14:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by yxq1995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make the first move its likley he'll get more comfortable with you and will kiss you first next time. good luck!
2007-01-14 14:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by xxlivzkittenxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Annie make the first move!!!!!!!
He's probably a bit shy,go for it!!!!!!
2007-01-14 14:24:41 · answer #11 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋