I am in tenth grade and have known this girl since the beginning of the school year. We have been hanging out after school and going on dates on the assumption that she was going to break up with her boyfriend. Recently we hung out last saturday for the entire day and then made out. We both agreed that we would not do anything until she breaks up with him but we were caught up in the moment. I told her that she needs to tell her boyfriend because he has the right to know that she kissed another man. The next day she told me that she did and that he didn't care. That didn't sound like him and shure enough he didn't know. I told him and now she is mad at me for telling him and he won't believe me. Now we are not only no longer not hanging out but we are not even talking. I love this girl and she tells me that she loves me. I don't know what to do now. Should I have taken it as far as to not talk to her until she breaks up with her boyfriend? Does this girl really love me?
2007-01-14 06:18:04 · 7 answers · asked by owlshockey2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well seeing as you are in grade 10, you are still young, you should not be fretting over any high school drama experiences of cheating and rumours and lies and deception because it is not worth your time. if she cheated on her boyfriend in the first place, do you really want a girl like that, once a cheater always a cheater, no you should not talk to her, if she is going to be all childish and mad then leave her be. you are in grade 10 this is not the end of the world, you will find someone that really does love you. if she loved you she would have broken up with her boyfriend along time ago and woulda told him the truth. just leave it be and move on
2007-01-14 06:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unlikely that this is going to turn out well. It sure got off to a bad start. She has to do some damage control before you get further involved with her. Look at it this way: if she was dating this other guy and made out with you, what's going to keep her from "getting caught up" in another moment? Unless you don't mind having your heart stomped on every other week, I'd find someone else.
2007-01-14 14:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she loves you, she might like you. Something like this happened to me in high school. I'll put $20 down on the fact that she wont leave him for you.
Telling him wasnt a good move, you should have just stopped hanging out with her once you found out she didnt tell him, grow a pair.
2007-01-14 14:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her that you love her and that you dont want to mess anything else up with her and her bf.
tell her if she really loves you and wants to be with you that she would have already broken it off with her current bf.
um.
you probably shouldnt have told the guy.
that caused alot of drama and some problems between you and her.
just try to talk to her first.
girls get mad and give people the silent treatment for a couple days but it wont last forever.
and
if she doesnt break it off with her bf.
you can get someone else.
theres lots of girls out there.
and they are probably alot better than her and would want to be with you!!
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goodluck, sweetie!
2007-01-14 14:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by whitney t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting played kid move on.
2007-01-14 14:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by lexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN LIKE HELL!!! AND DON'T LOOK BACK! or unless u got a gun then ur alright.
2007-01-14 14:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
makeout with her boyfriend
2007-01-14 14:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by azflyboy6477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋