I understand that yeah, i am a bit hardkore at times, and there's been 2 "nice guys" now that I got hold of but had to dump them coz they were too nice...but all the guys honestly think they can just go out with me and my friend for u-no-wot...and EVERYONE says they've gotten into me...there's one group of guys who know what Im really like, but they're all the ladies guys, so knowing them even if I did go for one o' them they'd cheat or something...but how can I make a guy realise that Im not a ****, but without changing myself?
2007-01-14 06:10:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to say no.
2007-01-14 06:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never encourage any one to be someone they are not. However in this case, its all about presentation. You can make some adjustments without changing who you are. Guys are visual creatures, You are very verbal in a stimulating way. They just figure if you talk the talk you must walk the walk. Their imaginations go wild,they start talking to their friends, and it all gets exagerated. You are the one who suffers the bad rep. So I say be careful what you ask for. You just might get it.
2007-01-14 06:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the term **** is over rated. If you are being true to who you want to be, and sexually exploring and doing what you want to do than there isn't a problem. If you are not doing things you want to do, or people are talking trash about you for whatever reason, than you need to set them straight. In all honesty, if there are no GOOD guys for you right now, then just don't date. Makes life a lot easier.
2007-01-14 06:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are always going to talk sh*t regardless of the situation. I would put that in the back of my head, not even something to concern urself about. Stop worrying about what people say, Peope will always talk. Start with being urself. If ur not a Slu*, like they say u are, then dont even bother proving it to anyone. Truth always seems to prevail at the end. Be urself, date anyone, but respect urself.. the real world will come around . goodluck,
2007-01-14 06:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in high school, you will get this a lot... truthfully when they tell you that it will never change, it wont for the people you only know in high school.
dont worry about what the people you know say about it, the people who care, wont say it...
but you need to stop the things you are doing. Those boys who talk about you this way that you are so worried about arent worth it... they wont get with you b/c of what they think of you... well do you want that anyway???
you need to find one good guy and show him different... dont cheat and dont sleep around. you need to improve upon your self. dont lose sight of exploring and enjoying yourself, just make sure that you think of the repurcussions in the situation. make adult decisions...
2007-01-14 06:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by I_caught_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing to make them think you are "easy?" My guess: If your clothes reveal alot of details about your body, you are advertising whether you think so or not. Men are visually stimulated, and if you're putting visual out there, they'll respond to it like a shark to blood in the water. Dress modestly and act modestly and you'll attract guys who are more interested in your mind and heart. And don't worry... when you're in private with the man you've committed your mind and heart to (and he to you), your bodies will respond better than you can imagine.
2007-01-14 06:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your behavior tells the truth. Act like a proper lady at all times, and your rep will change. Quit giving it up!
2007-01-14 06:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gibe them all the cold shoulder, pay them no mind and just be friendly when they speak to you. men hate it when they feel they can't get a woman's attention and you apparently give them enough attention to get on your nerves. They sound like immature men. It only takes one to get to know the real you and to relay that you are really a genuine person. just be careful of what you wear in public.
2007-01-14 06:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by Skypride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a guy be to nice? You don't seem to be very nice when you do the dirty and then dump them, and sorry your stuck with the name. Next time i wouldn't be so accomadating to guys.
2007-01-14 06:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them get to know the real you,everyones a bit hardcore sometimes,so they should just realize that.And maye you should give one of ur "ladies man" firends a chance...they might surprise you
2007-01-14 06:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is a classic state of denial. Guess what, if EVERYONE thinks you're something, its time to rexamine the woman in the mirror.
2007-01-14 06:14:13 · answer #11 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋