if a guy want to do things with you but you dont do it with him will it make him want you more? or will doing things with him make him like you more???
2007-01-14 06:08:57 · 25 answers · asked by hj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey you are probably way to young to be doing anything even with yourself,...
don't be pressured.
2007-01-14 06:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
This is kind of a trick question. If you don't do stuff, it does make him want you more, but only for a little while. If you DON'T do stuff after a while, then it drives him away because he knows he is not getting anything or going anywhere with you. Doing 'stuff' with a guy makes him closer to you and kinds seals the deal or relationship, and sooner or later, he expects you to give 'it' or something up. Like, you have been together for 5 years and engaged for 2, and you still have not had sex with him, that will not be good. I mean he can say he does not want sex all he wants, but eventually he will want it.
2007-01-14 14:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. It makes him want to find someone else who wants to be with him when he is doing things he likes to do. Look at the flip side. Would you think a guy liked you if he didn't want to do the things you invite him to do with you?
2007-01-14 14:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Going from experience, you should not risk your body over a guy. If you're not ready and he dosen't understand, then he's not the guy for you. Most guys who are looking for sex are not looking for a respectable girl at the moment, they are looking for someone who is easy. Easy girls do not get much respect from guys.But the guys who are looking for a respectable girlfriend will respect your desicion. So if you're not ready tell him, even if he dosen't show it, he will respect you in the long run.
2007-01-14 14:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not doing them will usually just make him look else where, if they are thing's you don't want or shouldn't do then don't. You will find someone who likes you for who you are.
But the question lets us know that you are willing to do most anything if it means you can manipulate him....typical female.
2007-01-14 14:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by brp_13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That only works for a short while. Eventually he gets tired of it and moves on to someone who will do things. You don't want to do something? Don't do it. But don't skip it just because you think it will make him want you more.
2007-01-14 14:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NEVER do things with someone in order to get the to like you more. A guy who really likes you will respect you enough to wait.
2007-01-14 14:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Ahhhhh.....It's the challenge when you cant just get what you want when you want it...It makes the game more interesting...but, once you do it, the challenge is gone, and the guy goes looking for different game.......good luck
2007-01-14 14:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well guys will play along for a while but then they get pissed off and go out "looking for adventure"
my best advice:
DO SOMETHING WITH HIM
2007-01-14 14:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will get dumped and replaced by a Grl who DOES everything he wants.and end up fat lonely depressed and on here flagging all the normal people.
2007-01-14 14:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
H.J : well it's your deciding point! because you'd has the right
towards finding out about him personly.But knowing whom is
not perfect only this matters with yourself ok ?
refer http://www.selfcontrol.com
2007-01-14 14:21:30 · answer #11 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋