Basically the women was infatuated with me, but now it seems this week she is less interested in me. What can I do to get her to really like me again? Should I open up and basically tell her things like I feel their is a connection with us, or whatever. Just basically what are ideas that have worked on you or for you, to get you to really like a man again or get women to like you again?
2007-01-14 05:47:17 · 6 answers · asked by Magician 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your timing was off on this one guy...
Infatuation has to turn into something more or it will fade at about 6 weeks...
She may have moved along already and become infatuated with someone else. You are lucky it didn't turn into a loveship..
The "get to like" business... happens in the infatuation or the "in lust" period of a relationship..
Sorry better timing on your next trip around the block
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-14 05:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by H.O.T. Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes, it is not even your fault, it's just sometimes that you get to know the person better and you kind a feel he is not really the one for you or there are certain things that you don't really care about so much...
the best thing is to tell her, that you feel she changed and you really would like to know if it is something you did , and if so you would like to work on it (women love that if you want actually talk about stuff and even would like to change), but don't change totally for her so it is not really you anymore..
well talking is the best thing in this situation and then you will see whats her problem
good luck
2007-01-14 13:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by m_faery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't win back a woman's interest. They are fickle and once their interest level decreases... it decreases. In other words, once you tell them all they need to know about you.. the mystery is gone. Next time don't be so forthcoming with a girl. If they ask about your job.. tell them you are an underwater bead stacker. If they ask again, tell them something else. It's not until you sleep with them that you actually do date stuff like dinner and a movie with them.
2007-01-14 14:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her something to talk about, show her that you're attracted to her as well. Dont be shy about it, dont just talk or you'll become a friend. They need someone who will hug them at times and tease them to show them that they're sexy. I was in a relationship like yours once, i took it too seriously and didnt flirt like usual. I ended up losing her interest and becoming her friend. If you lose this time, they'll be plenty of other chances, just remember to learn from your mistakes every time something fails.
2007-01-15 01:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
open up and start talking to her,iguess you didnt comunicate much and told her how you really feel and thats a real bad mistake so open your mouth if you want her really back :) and treat her good ...good luck :)
2007-01-14 13:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by sweety4live2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start treating her better
2007-01-14 13:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋