Good men are everywhere. The real question is, when will women grow up and start to appreciate good men? Instead, women would rather date insecure, rude "bad boys" in an attempt to change them.
Why is this?
2007-01-14 05:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have found myself (not to offend my gender) not knowing when I have a good man. I have been treated so badly that when I do have a good man I do not know I do. Then I am gulity of whining.
2007-01-14 05:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The women who whine are the ones who tend to gravitate towards the man who cannot speak clear English, is a carrier of STDs, abuses them (physically and emotionally), compulsively cheats, disrespects them, calls the nasty names, lies, connives, and demonstrates the characteristics of the proverbial "Bad Boy". He is good for one thing, and one thing only: great sex around the clock. Girls and women grovel over theses bad boys, with the sad misconception that he is a "Real Man" whom just needs a little of her refining that the other women could not provide. Because of this, the same women will dis and laugh in the face of the man who is a gentleman, opens the door, actually dates them, is able to carry on a conversation of many different aspects, speaks clear English, is monogamous, is a thinker, has a strong steady job, pays his bills on time, is well respected, romantic, and is a man they can introduce to their inner circle without shame nor embarrassment. In other words, marriage material. Somehow, these women have been deceived into thinking the bad boy is marriage material while the gentleman is a spineless dork who will either be shown the instant reject button, or best case, is placed in that all too familiar "Friendship" category. Perhaps these women never had a strong father in their life like I did, or maybe they have allowed society to pollute their judgement. I can say this, because I have a wonderful Husband. Truth be told, I was never attracted to the bad boys, which is why I ended up with a good man with all its attributes listed above.
2016-05-24 00:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like bad men and i don't try to change my boyfriend, he is what he is and i apparently love him i wouldn't be with him all this time. And question for you,, why are some men attracted to the wrong women? It works both was. Is it because the need to grow up, get more responsiblity, know what they want out of life? That is what makes us who we are it would be boring if everyone thought and act the same.And last but not least, i appreciate a good man.
2007-01-14 05:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right a lot of women date the bad boy type to try and change them, but you know we always want what we can't have and find it a challenge to change the bad boy. But the problem is we don't appreciate the good guys once we have them.
2007-01-14 05:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by imdachef2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women go for the bad type kind of guy because they feel secure that that bad guy could protect them. Where the nice guy might be too whiny to protect her. I like nice guys. They care about you where the jerks are stupid. I can't answer you that question about why SOME women want bad men because I am not one of those women. But my question to you is why do boys rather have the "hot sexy girl who is a b!itch" rather then the nice,respectful girl?
2007-01-14 05:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can give you an exact answer. Women want "good men" when they are ready to get married, but honestly, for the short term and dating, they want a "bad boy" because they affect her EMOTIONALLY, women are emotional creatures, where as the nice guy works on her LOGIC, this is the mistake men (who don't get women) make.
2007-01-14 05:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women date the men they feel worthy of. So many lack respect or self esteem and feel a jerk is the best they can do. Then they either try to change him, or get pregnant and proclaim they "don't need a man".
2007-01-14 05:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women have more options ever in history. It is going to take a generation, or two to figure out what to do with all this independence. When we are done make all of the stupid choices men made, we will give you a call.
Hey, are you a U.S. citizen?
2007-01-14 05:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women basically go for 'bad boys' because they want to make them better - it's like a project to work on. . . a lot of times when women are able to accomplish the turn-around from their man, they get bored/disinterrested
2007-01-14 05:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by az_showers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mike I am with you on this one but you know they dont have an answer. They just want to complain about somthing and then mistreat the good guys and lead them on until they find a bad boy to hurt them again.
2007-01-14 05:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mac H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋