If I forgave this person and continued to be their friend even though they hurt me in the past, than I should have no right to bring up that past hurtful event, right?
2007-01-14 05:04:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard because the pain or hurt is still there. We would have to make amends within our selves some how? That's tough sometimes. I've gone through that. There needs to be healing from within. Good Luck and Best Wishes!
2007-01-14 05:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Red Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It cause it really hurt you so it makes it harder to get over. If it was something small that didn't matter to you chances are you would get over it and wouldn't bring it up, but it did hurt so it makes it that much harder to forget about. I know I do the same thing. I think it's just a girl thing.
2007-01-14 13:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by babaygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no right to bring it up if u said u forgave but that doesnt mean that you will ever forget about it. u just need to be real careful they dont hurt u again but if u still have those feelings u need to give yourself more space
2007-01-14 13:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically you shouldn't, but forgiving doesn't mean forgetting. it is hard to let something go when you have been truely hurt and the fact is, you may still need to talk about it in order to move on.
2007-01-14 13:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it form a diffrent point of view
would u be a good friend if u were keeping that inside??? that u were hurt and that u didnt tell ur friend??? yea well i didnt tell m,y friend either when she hurt me and one day i just blew up and i went balistic........... wasnt pretty so i would tell her whether society thinks that it is the right thing or not. how do u know mabey keeping that in is a bad thing to do
2007-01-14 13:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES IN THE PAST BUT LIVE IN THE PRESENT!!!!!THERE IS NO FUTURE IN THE PAST!!!! ONLY FOCUS ON THE HERE AND NOW!!!!!! LIVE EVERYDAY LIKE YOU WERE DYING!!!!!!
2007-01-14 13:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
â¥I'm the same way-I can never let things go-especially when I'm done wrongâ¥
2007-01-14 13:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋