Hi my name is Cristina and I recently dumped my bf. He has cheated on me 2 and I have forgiven him. But now I caught him with my best friend! They were making out at a bowling alley. I felt like my heart was completly ripped out of my heart because I really had feelings for him. I yesterday dumped him and he started kissing me and touching me. I ran away but he dosen't stop calling me. What should I do now, I still like him. Does he deserve me? I'm 13 years old.
Oh and please give your name and age in your answer in case I choose you as best answer.
Love, Cristina
2007-01-14 04:48:34 · 26 answers · asked by Cristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he definately doesn't deserve u. he cheated on u. forgiving him would just encourage him to do things behind ur back coz he would think that ur easy to cheat and play the fool with. dont u see, hes using u!!
and under no circumstances allow him to touch u. if he really loves u he will wait even if u dump him and he'll wait for that day when ur ready to forgive him. and he will prove that he's worthy of u. ur still too young. we tend to make mistakes and let our heart rule our head at this age. u still have a great life ahead. dont give it up for someone who doesn't realise ur value. ur special and u need to be treated well.
as for u , i'd suggest that u wait for a month or so without contacting him. u may still have feelings for him then but atleast that time will help u decide with a clear mind whether u want to continue or not. and if he comes back he'll realise that ur not just ANY GIRL who he can expect to come back each time he cheats u. and if he repeats it, just forget him(its not easy). a sweet person like u should get a better guy than him.
Im an 18 year old girl. my name is Amrita.
Source(s): ive see many of my friends getting cheated.
2007-01-14 05:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by hihello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not respect you, which is unforgivable. You need to work on your self-esteem if you don't know that he does not deserve you. He has cheated on you more than once, and most recently with someone that is very important to you, which is an indication that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. The fact that he started kissing and touching you after you dumped him is also proof that your thought and feelings did not matter to him. You are only a play thing to him...MOVE ON!
2007-01-14 05:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by mlmsattx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I have had my heart broken too many times at that age. I'm not gonna tell you that you are too young to have a boyfriend. It's your life and to be honest who hasn't had one by then. I will tell you that you have to re,ember that a 13 year old boy is actually a 10 year old mind wise. He isn't thinking about a long term girlfriend now all he cares about is the fun he can have with whoever at the time. You should be doing the same! Have fun get out here! Date someone else. I'm sure that he'll get jealous and come back...screw him! He lost his chance. As for this "best friend" a ho is a ho. She's a ho.... lose her too...
Samantha 21
2007-01-14 04:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~BelAnge~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cristina, my name is Athena and I'm 21.Seriously after all the things that he done to you he really you really shouldn't think at him at all.I know this is really hard because you like him I know how hard it is for you cause I've been through the same.You should get over him!Try new hobbies or the best thing you can do turn your interest to someone who deserves it!Hope I helped!
2007-01-14 04:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't deserve you. He obviously just likes attention from who ever will give it to him. Your best friend is also an issue. Thats a low thing for her to do and she obviously jealous of what you have.
Your young, don't start tolerating this behaviour in your life now, cause it will only get worse as you get older... and you'll be opening yourself up to more hurt in the long run. You need positive influences in your life. Not people who are always trying to knock you down.
2007-01-14 04:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by CEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you twice then you two are obviously not right for each other. Forget him. Change your number, or just figure out how to block his number. Your 13, you could have a bf whenever you want. Live your life.
Love Always, Kristina 17
2007-01-14 04:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by pop89eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i wont give my name or my age, if you chose to listen and take my advise that fine if you don't that's fine as well. I'm sorry but your 13 you have many years ahead of you for boyfriends.if you start out now allowing boys to treat you bad, you will continue this even as an adult. you deserve to be treated better. but if you don't realize this now you never will. you are the only one that can control how others treat you.PS. i would get rid of the friend also.
2007-01-14 04:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you prefer greater human beings to answer do not write like a 12 year previous captivated with short types. that's rather stressful and stressful to study. in any case, it feels like your merely insecure which includes your "boy buddy". How previous are you, 13 perhaps 15? think of of it this manner, if he likes he different woman greater, why is he nonetheless with you? for sure simply by fact he likes you! And merely simply by fact he likes you does not recommend you adult men would desire to hug and kiss all of the time. that's not why you're in a relationship. no remember if that's then I recommend you improve-up and stay single until you be responsive to the real which potential of a couples relationship. additionally, merely simply by fact he does not answer you appropriate away on msn does not recommend something. the real question you will desire to ask your self is why are you so insecure approximately your relationship with him? i've got faith you actual need to think of what you actual need out of this relationship and probably take a seat which includes your guy and consult with him. sturdy success.
2016-10-19 23:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cristina god give you feely to help you to understand your body when you saw your boy friend kissing your best friend you knew it was not right and when he start to kiss you and touching you god told you to runaway and no he dont deserve you because youre a little flower slow down you have a life time to grow up never give your heart to someone who will hurt you you deserve better good luck
2007-01-14 05:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay out of that situation and tell himt hat u dont want to be aquainted with him anymore b/c realy if he has cheated on u befor ehwta makes u think that he wont do it again???? i dont think u have a very good friend there b/c sh emad eout with ur ex. escpecialy if he is recent. i wouldnt make out wiht any of friends' exs. just for the fact i think that it is wrong. i dont thint hat he deserves u at allu ot deserve someone who is gonna cheat on u . u can do much better.
~Breanna, 14
2007-01-14 04:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋