How many times should u date someone with out having sex?

Question

If u really like him....

Answer 1

Depends. If you just want a short term relationship based on sex, then you can do it on the first date if you feel safe with the person. If you're contemplating something other than short term, then wait until you're sure that the other person has the same goal in mind. How do you know? One of the signs is that he sticks around even though no sex is involved.

Answer 2

3 times

Answer 3

As many times as it takes. You will know when it is right. When you are ready not the other way around. Heck you might date him the first or second time and decide that you want to discontinue any contacts with him. Then again you might want to wait and see what his true intentions are pertaining to sex with you are long term to see if all he is interested in is sex.

Answer 4

As many times as it takes to get to the point where "you more then like that person."

If you have sex with everyone you "like" you're going to be one very busy person.

Seriously though there should be something there more then "like."

Think about it... really, think about it, do you want to have sex with someone you just "like?"

Hey I like sex and probably would. (I'm male) But if I did this with everyone I like......well...... Maybe because I'm older, I want to have more then just sex. I want to make love to the woman and her me. Making love is different then having sex.

To be honest about it with myself... I would just for the sex. I hate to say that, because I feel Love is the most important thing in this world!

I'll give you my opinion. "I think you're young and I think you should wait until you have a feeling thats more then just "Like."

There's more to, think about this. If your going to have sex with someone you just like, I can guarantee (almost) you won't get much satisfaction out of it. (Orgasm) It will be an "slam, bam, thank you mam.

Cut yourself a break on this one and wait until you need not ask yourself this question. When you don't have to ask yourself this question, you'll have sex and just maybe it will be the "making love kind" and that is much better.

What do you think? Your okay, your okay just the way you are!

Frank C

Answer 5

There are, of course, several factors involved. One of which is what is your age? Have you discussed this with your parents(or someone you trust). What is the basis of your relationship. These are questions you need to ask yourself. Sex is a very personal physical activity and should never be done recklessly, or without precaution. I believe it takes several dates before you really get to know someone. There again, it's a matter of personal preference. My best answer for you is to know who you are sleeping with.

Answer 6

That depends on the people involved. If you're looking for a long term relationship, I would give it at least a month. If the person is not willing to wait, they probably aren't relationship material anyway. It takes time to get to know someone.

Answer 7

Zero times

Answer 8

You shouldn't have to worry about his. Having sex is more about wanting to and being comfortable with the person you are with rather than going on so many dates before it is time.

Date as long as you feel you need to before you give yourself to him.

Good luck!

Answer 9

I would say at least a month. Much less than that and he will think that you are easy but it all depends on how serious you are getting and how old you are the older that you are the shorter the time to wait.

Answer 10

it kinda depends if your partner wants to have sex. from experience, id say around 7 or 9 dates before you should actually ask him to have intercourse. it may seem like a long time, but its better to take it slow than to ask him after the third date (it kinda makes you sound like a hoochie.)