If sex hurts the first times do you still enjoy them or...?

Question

does it just hurt?

Answer 1

I loved every minute of it my first time; it was only about 3 months ago (I'm 19 and a college student if you cared to know). Yes it was painful, because I was smaller than the average woman, and my boyfriend is larger and longer than the average man when erect, so I was worried that he wouldn't fit at all. But for a few months prior to our first time (well, mine at least b/c he wasn't a virgin when I met him over a year ago), he was helping me stretch with his fingers. At first just one finger for a few weeks, and when the pain subsided, he began to use two. It really helped. Even though it was still rather painful when I finally did have HIM for the first time, I welcomed the pain; I was SO happy that he fit, and he was SO gentle with me. Yes, I enjoyed him very much.

Btw, if you'd actually like to read about my first time, you can view it under my "best answers" on my profile. I believe it's titled, "When was you first time? how old were you and how did it happen?".

Hope this helps~

Answer 2

For me...it hurt the first few times. I actually got a tare in my vagina. But after that it felt really good! But I have friends who never had any pain their first time so I think it depends how small you are.

Answer 3

if it hurt as much as you say then you need to wait a longer intell youre a little older to enjoy it or intell you know what foulplay is about good luck be safe

Answer 4

It only hurts for girls…
And it doesn't really hurt that much. You get over it.

Answer 5

it usually always hurts the first time

Answer 6

depends on the person.
some likes the pain. they feel pleasure and pain at the same time and likes it and tells their parner to go faster rougher and deeper.
and harder. and they talk dirty too.