2007-01-14 04:39:29 · 15 answers · asked by Always in Trouble 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes,...because we have the capacity but from the beginning one man one woman husband and wife,...so we tend to think that we can love another, but guess what you can. Keep it as a secret love though.
2007-01-14 04:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course it is possible. That's why you have to use your head as well as your heart. Maybe one of those two are right for you. Maybe neither one is. The question is: are you going to pursue both? That would probably be a very bad idea. Humans aren't really made to be intimate with two other people.
So think about it. Who would you trust even the worst secrets of yourself with -- the most humiliating, stupid, horrible things you've ever said or done -- and who would still want to be with you anyway?
It's really easy to fall for a physical attraction, but there are two more pieces to the love triange: mental and emotional compatibility. If the physical attraction is mutual for both, then you need to evaluate the other two aspects objectively. Friends can help you here. Often they'll see or hear things you overlook in your smitten blindness.
Good luck, and use your head!
2007-01-14 12:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very possible to be in love with someone as well as your wife or husband. I say this as I love EVERYONE in my family, and I can also say that yes, I have love or do love other women that I know. But just because you love someone does NOT mean that you have to date them or go to bed with them.
2007-01-14 12:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea!!!!!! do u love ur mom??? do u loev ur dad??? there is 2 people already. love isnt just a thing between 2 peoiple romanticaly. loev isnt a feeling. love is an action and u can show love to how many people u want, love may cause some romantic and intense feeling between people but its self is not a feeling
2007-01-14 12:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is. Why not? Don't you love your mother and father at the same time.(I know it's a different love, but nonetheless, it is love.)
Or brother and sisters at the same time.
Question is: Are you gonna stay with the one that loves YOU or are you gonna stay with the one YOU love.?
2007-01-14 12:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone but really you are in love with the other. There is a difference between loving and "IN LOVE".
2007-01-14 12:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course. alot of people do. it is in the human nature to love. dont take advantaged of it but be happy u love at all
2007-01-14 12:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ofcourse. Reason? Gatai.
2007-01-14 12:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, just not fair to either. You need to pick...before you cause more pain than is necessary
2007-01-14 12:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by mlmsattx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is
what if you love em both? Then you just do love them, so yes , it is.
Theres a song, "Darlin you can't love one", etc.
2007-01-14 12:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋