Mine is that i have some foolish hope that life will get better. and i'm scared that the christians might be right and if i end my life, ill spend eternal damnation in hell. Whats yours???????
2007-01-14 04:10:35 · 47 answers · asked by Blackout 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It is a totally ignorant person who calls someone desperate enough to consider suicide a lunatic.
Some people feel so lonely, trapped, afraid, guilty that death seems the only option.
It really is n't.
If you really are thinking about doing this, please Im begging you speak to someone now. You can even speak to me if you wish, I will give you my email address.. I am a psychaitric nursing student, but more importantly I am the best friend of a 19 year old who killed herself 5 years ago, and I have seen the devestation it leaves behind.. when someone does something like that, they kill off a part of every person who has known them.
You may not feel loved, wanted or worthy. But I am a person and I care.
Religion aside, you get one chance at life. We all **** up, we all, without exception have regrets, some have minor regrets, some have made huge mistakes. We are all worthy of a second chance.
Lots of love
Kirsty.
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2007-01-14 04:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by KB 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Life is all about change. That's both good and bad. It's good in that things do get better from whatever is bothering. The bad thing is that something else will happen to bring you down again. That's the way it goes. But again just like this time, things end up getting better.
Rather than taking the easy way out, the goal should be trying to figure out how to put yourself in a better place. I won't even go the religious angle. That can only lead to more confusion. Rather than that, find stuff that makes you happy. Surround yourself with that. Be it playing video games, collecting (anything), hanging out with friends, watching movies, listening to music, anything. If you don't already have a hobby, find something you enjoy. Find online groups that share that interest. Before too long you will be focusing on tomorrow more than ending it today.
2007-01-14 04:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by J_Man_La 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because I don't believe in eternal damnation I can believe in life and be free. Even when it gets so hard to bear, I know for sure that it will be a tomorrow with 24 hours to try again.
That's not foolish, that's how life works. It's not a matter of faith, it's a matter of knowing and we all know, deep inside we all know that life does worth a try. Go inside your self and you will find this.
God bless you.
2007-01-14 04:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by b-clear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont spend eternal damnation in hell, hell is not real, but heaven is, but life will get better and to be honest, life i waht you make it, there is always hope, no matter what you think im 16 and iv went throughenough to realise that nothing ever stays the same, you will change or you situation around you will change to help you cope with something in your life. suicide is not the answer even though somethink it is,that is the people that have been driven mad by lifes burdedns and bullies that they see no way out they do not see the light at the end of the tunnel, but let me tell you there is always hope and there is alwyas light, we are just too blind to see it... by the way "I KNOW" that there is no hell the is a lower spiritual realm where rapists and murders ect go, but they can leave when they truly repent for what they have done. suicides dont go there. but that is not and excuse to end your life, life is great we just dont realise it and we will rgrer it ce it is taken from us. read thorntn wilders play "Our town" the ending is brilliant and will reinforce what im saying...
xoxox
2007-01-14 04:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Denise 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The Christians are right. You have no right to decide when to end your life. You might be having some bad days, but every time you wake up it is a new chance for fulfillment and peace. Get in touch with God. He'll listen to you and improve your life.
Everyone has a struggle with life. Christians know this is a testing place. God is perfecting our souls. We place our lives in his hands because he knows best. When we make plans we commit them to the Lord for him to establish. He is the good shepard and he will always help his flock.
May you come to know the peace of God that passes all understanding. Even in adversity I know I am never alone and God is using every situation for my ultimate good. That gives me peace.
God bless you. Life is worth living.
2007-01-14 04:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hope that life will get better isn't necesarilly a foolish one.. if you want things to get better then do all you can to make it that way. The only foolish thaught here is 'the christians might be right'. Remember you are here for a reason! xXx
2007-01-14 04:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard also that suicide does not good aftermath, you go to a place that's ,let's say not good.... that's what's stopping me. But the real reason i don't end it all is because I'm scared. I have tried but everytime I get a really bad feeling. Life is bad I know but you know, as difficult as this is, there's always hope. have hope in your heart that we, as true children of God that we are (if we're not His children, whose children are we?) are loved by God & He will help us only if we ask. Please believe me, I'm too suffering very much & want to cry all the time, don't have anyone to talk to really & only can turn to God. I wish I could do sth more to help you, but I all I can say is pray & ask God. He will hear you.
luvxxx
2007-01-14 12:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mainly, I trust that God has a plan for my life. My life isn't mine to end, and to do so would be selfish - my fiance, my parents, my family and friends would be devastated - why would I want to hurt them?
I believe that although I don't like myself much, I accept that others do and I can be a friend to them. If I can help others to feel loved, then my life is worth living.
2007-01-14 05:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
god, life is just so amazing, bloody scary, but full of opportunities. i always think that no matter what, i can go to greece, work in a bar, read books and slow down if it all becomes too much. it is a selfish thing to do when that happens, but you need to be when you're thinking that drastic. i think daily life is about unselfish things like kids, mortgage, taking care of loved ones and mucho responsibility. you have just got to decide what you want...greece(your idea of it) or the normality of everyday life! its not about christianity, its about YOU and your happiness and what you need to be content and care free.
2007-01-14 04:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by jjayster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My life is incredible amazing and fabulous and good. But it hasn't always been and I have felt like you do so you are right not to end it, this too will pass.
All the best for the future.
2007-01-14 04:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋