did she dump me or what?

Question

my girl had to move about 3 hours away from me about a week ago due to family issues. we were talking almost everyday not very long just seeing whats up and stuff but then i called her 2 days ago and shwe didnt answer and then i called her yesterday and she didnt answer and shes not returning my text messages. what should i do?

Answer 1

give it a little time, there might be a good reason that you have not heard from her, but if she does not want to talk to you, wish her the best and move on

Answer 2

Usually when significant other have to move away and be with family because of issues, They focus on what is going on and worry about other things when they can get around to it. I am sure something major is going on and she could not answer her phone or your text messages. When she does get a chance to talk to you she will probbaly explain why she was not able to talk or text back. You should just wait a little while longer and if you feel you have to call her again then do it. She will get back to you when she can, in this case family is first.

Answer 3

I wouldn't worry about it too much right now. Think about what she's going through- she's just moved away from all her friends and her boyfriend! Give her a couple days to settle in ( I understand it's been a week already ). Don't call her for a couple days. Then give her a call, if she doesn't answer or call you back, you need to let her go. Long distance relationships very rarely work out.

Answer 4

Hard to say. If she's dealing with family issues she may just be busy or she may be too upset to talk & need time to herself. Or she may be avoiding you & too cowardly to admit she wants to break up. Try not to take it personally either way. It's her issue, not yours. You have left messages so it's up to her to respond now. Give her some space. Hopefully she will give you an answer soon, one way or the other.

Good luck. Whatever happens, remember you will be ok. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Maybe there's someone better out there for you.

Answer 5

Are you calling her house or her cell phone? She could have lost the thing! Try calling someone else, like her family or another friend of hers. If they say she's fine and she hasn't lost her cell, I'd ask them to have her call you, so you can ask her yourself what's going on.

Don't get mad at her though, if the news is bad...act calm and quiet and then get mad when she's not on the phone any more.

Answer 6

just wait it out an see.. She could be really busy and thats why shes not answering your calls... have someone else you know call her from a differant number and see if she answers...if she does shes avoiding you and you guys need to talk if not...dont worry about it

Answer 7

If she moved for family problems, maybe she's dealing with them and that's why she hasn't returned your calls. Just wait and if you don't hear from her in about another week, just look at it as anther chapter in your book.

Answer 8

she might just be really busy and not had much of a chance to talk
if it continues though, definatly text her or something asking her why she isnt talking to you anymore and if she doesnt reply to that then i dont think she wants to talk to you anymore and is too scared to finish things herself :( hope everything turns out ok for you guys though

Answer 9

say bye , move on or try one more time maybe she was at work or something if u keep trying and she dont awnser leave her ***..

Answer 10

Just wait a bit! =/