me and my gf have a problem. we are wanting to be together more than anything but their are majob problems. she is the sole income for her aunt and shes tired of supporting her aunt but shes a good person and wont leave her to rot (sorta speak) she is a person that is a pleaser and likes to please everyone. her job is causing her alot of trouble and so much stress but she cant leave because of what i said before. and she is on the verge of a nervous break down and im just about long side her. please i need help what do i do. do i go get her and take her with me to my place to live, do i ask her to do it, do i go live with her, im just so confused i need help. please help me.
2007-01-14 03:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by lxahlers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-14 03:22:26 · update #1
wow this girl sounds wonderful and you seem lucky to have her, dont be selfish and ask her to leave her aunt that is wrong, just sit her down and talk to her and tell her what your feeling, but i think if you tell her to go with you she is going to tell you to get the hell out and she may not ever want to see you again, so maybe it would be the best thing for you to go live there and help her out it would be less stress, maybe you should give you girl a day at the spa, and give her 1 day to relax and you help with the aunt, wow this is tough, think about it and good luck:)
2007-01-14 03:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all situations are temporary. your gf has two problems. she should start with getting a job that is not stressful. once that is mastered, then work on the aunt. if the aunt is sick, the aunt needs to apply for assistance, etc. this will take time, but remember this is only temp.
2007-01-14 03:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why is she supporting her aunt, is she disabled or sick? if that is the case then i can understand why she is there. is there not anyone who can come in and sit with her aunt while you spend time together? if you are in this relationship for the long haul then i would probably consider moving in with her as long as it would not cause problems.
2007-01-14 03:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by trcsouth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you could ask her family to help out. Your girlfriend is amazing to take care of her aunt and stick to a crappy job. If there is no family then you could help her pay some of the things so your girlfriend is not stressed out. You could ask your girl if you could move in or she move in with you if that is what you both want.
2007-01-14 03:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move in with her and help her and the aunt out. It would be a win win situation for all of you.
2007-01-14 03:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by justme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep her calm and think all of this through and figure out the best possible answer that will work as of right now without hurting anyone's feelings, good luck
2007-01-14 03:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by JennLee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-08 03:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by lavis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋