i am in love with this girl and i proposed 2 her... but she is telling that this is not the time for relanship but to study. we both are graduates..and i told her that i will only ask her hand after gettin a job.. but she insisit that it all depends on her dad.. does she likw me.. she not giving proper answer.. but after this incident she messages me more.. we go on messagin for really long time. does she love me or not..
2007-01-14 03:19:06 · 16 answers · asked by jep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i guess she really loves you
but she's not yet prepared for a relationship right now
u need to give her time
and show ur capability
impress her as much as you can
and give her as much as time as possible.
She's only scared of her father!
probably she also loves u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-14 05:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to have certain feelings for you but does not seem so sure about starting a relationship on her own and to go against her parents and all other things that such affair may call for. I think she has a conservative background and she is hesitant to give in to the temptation of loving you. The proper way is to get a job and approach her dad for her hand.
2007-01-15 09:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she takes you as a companion more than her lover. I think the best way now is be friends and discover each other well. Find out your comfort level with her. Study hard and make a career. Let her too make a career. Her father will never deny a person he feels capable of holding her and take care of her. I think its better to stay with her to know what kind of person her father is looking for in a suitable groom. She will also love to sail with a successful person. All the best.
2007-01-14 11:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by partha_kar888 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course she likes u, but just the matter is she is from the family where its more like arrange marriage as she said it depends on her dad....so just get a good job & then go to her dad wid ur family & ask her hand dats all.............All the best.
2007-01-14 20:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a case of love. i am going to guess that she is just very close to her father and wants him to aprove. maybe after you guys are settled in and both COLLEGE grads. (not sure what you ment by grads) then you can go on with your life. i think next time (if shes this kind of girl) ask her dad first. there are still those kind of women in this world.
2007-01-14 12:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste time messaging but prove your love by becoming worthy of asking her father for her hand in marriage !!
2007-01-14 11:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by madhatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i say no what will happen and if say yes what will happen
nothing going to happen.
first of all get a job and make ur parents proud.
2007-01-15 18:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by nataraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmmmm........ congrats i think she luvs u, most of the times a girl never directly says yes. may be its a sign that she likes being close to u.
2007-01-14 11:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves you but she is scared her dad might say no...she is confused...just give her some space and time to figure things out.
2007-01-14 11:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a feeling she likes you.. persevere and i am sure you'd be successful.i made my husband go on a merry go round when he proposed.. but he persevered and i accepted. :)
2007-01-14 11:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋