hes shy but hes always talking to me, stands close to me, smiles when he sees me but I didnt notice any of this until someone is like yeah "he likes you" Why am I so oblivious sometimes?
2007-01-14 03:08:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not full of myself in the least bit, more self consious
2007-01-14 03:11:44 · update #1
I do like him and I'm like this with every guy I ever liked
2007-01-14 03:12:25 · update #2
haha not blonde but I do act it sometimes
2007-01-14 03:13:50 · update #3
Perhaps it happens so often to you that you just are used too it and therefore pay little attention.
2007-01-14 03:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. i need some kind of extreme sign in front of my face to know whether its ok or not to make a move.
He is afraid of what would happen if you found out that he likes you and afraid of total rejection including the loss of the friendship.
if you like him, flirt a little bit, maybe make a mild move, let him know that it's okay.
if you don't like him like that, don't do any of that, still be nice to him but every once and a while back away a little when he gets close to you or something, to let him know its not okay.
I have a lot of experience here, email me if you want to go more into detail.
2007-01-14 11:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Chris A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence but if you are very self concience then you might be more full of your self than you think. which is not a bad thing either. You must remember that you must process your feelings first before you can deal with other peoples feelings. Hope this helps a little.
2007-01-14 11:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by ezrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pay a little more attention to him tooooooooo! Make delibarate efforts to chat him up, stand near him, smile when you see him, hold his hand now and then, go to cafeteria together, etc., etc. and even tell him, eventually, if he would'n tell you, that you like him! Take it from there! Thats if you like him as you say and obviously you DO! All the best!
2007-01-14 11:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always had the same "problem". I used to think everyone else was just delusional, but then decided I'm oblivious. Frankly, I've grown to like it...it keeps me from jumping to conclusions.
2007-01-14 11:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're pretty normal to me. The question is do you like him? It's obvious he's told somebody he is interested in you. He
is probably waiting for you to respond. It's hard when you are shy.
2007-01-14 11:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by judywalker23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just haven't learned the signs of someone liking you yet. don't worry, it will come in time. you're probably used to the way he usually is and didn't notice when he started acting different
2007-01-14 11:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Kathleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your naturally friendly and expect others to be the same without any other motive. It is call innocence, and it is a good thing.
Gee, I sound like Martha!
2007-01-14 11:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by JAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you don't notice it either you are busy talking to someone else or do you like another guy? because if you do then you are probably watching this other guy instead of the said guy
2007-01-14 11:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everone is like that at times so don't feel bad.
2007-01-14 11:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋