would like a girls anawer?

Question

i want to talk to michelle in my gym she sits behind the desk , i don't want to be in her face where she has to answer .
i don't like it when people r in my face, so i defenatley wouldn't want to do that to make her feel unconfortable.
would like to know what would be ok with u.

Answer 1

I also work as a receptionist and I HATE it when guys come talk to me specially if they are trying to get my number or to ask me out. The only way for you to get her attention is by just being polite and charming when you do get to talk to her, if she is interested then she will make more conversation.

Answer 2

If you just want to talk to her then that is not being in her face, just start up a conversation with her the next time you are at the gym.
Ask her how she is or what she got up too at the weekend, this wont make her feel uncomfortable. In fact she will like you more because you seem interested in her.
Go for it babe, good luck xxx

Answer 3

Took me a while,, but now i realise the desk is not a piece of gym equipment and michelle is the receptionist! right,well thats easy...ask her Q's about facilities in the gym,the equipment & how to use it. you'll find out more about her & if theres a chance you'll both get on.plus look out for the hints that she likes u.she should ask u Q's bout yourself...FELLAS..women make it pretty clear when their into u. fidgeting with hair lots of nervous eye contact,smiling.writing her number on your forehead!

Answer 4

If you are friendly with her, ask her to lunch or something, and make it not like a date, make it very casual. Find out when her break is and approach her beforehand.
If she seems interested, then you can talk to her about the possibility of a date when you go to lunch but take it slow.
If she isn't interested in even a casual date then no matter how much you try not to be in her face, she won't like it and won't want to talk to you.
If you make it a lunch or something easy like that even if she is not interested you won't feel awkward after wards.

Answer 5

Start off with eye contact and hello, thats always a good start. Try that for a few days and then progress to asking how she is. Maybe a few compliments after a few more days.See how that goes and then go in for the kill. If she blows you off you can always find a new gym!!

Answer 6

i would be flattered even if a fella took the tim to talk to me! instaed of just sitting straing at me or ages you kno, i say just talk to her and be really polite and ask her personal things about her self, you know what she likes to do, family ect.. then just leave it foe that day, and the nxt day you come in do the same thing obviously not the same questions like, then when she becmes familiar with the days you come in, just dont tun up one of the days your supposeto come in, and something will click in her head and she will wounder why your not there, trust me iv done it on a few fellas lol. it does work she will notice you when your gone for a day, and just take it from there :D

Answer 7

i have had guys send me notes, or put some flowers and candy on my desk with a nice card and telling me where to go for dinner,i have even had a guy leave his phone number on my car and tell me to call him, there are so many ways to do it... women like sweetness and romatic things and you never know maybe she is thinking your cute and wondering why you havent asked her out yet, your wasting time and we hate that:) good luck

Answer 8

How old are you? Have you considered why you avoid eye contact during conversation?Talk to her, that's OK, but try to look at her also(otherwise she might think that you dislike her, just be sure not to stare at her too intensely).Good luck!

Answer 9

First, try to greet her politely, maybe she'll look at you. Then sit down, but not too close, then see how it goes on from there.

Answer 10

Start by saying hi hows it going.Soon you will be having a converstion.Remeber she may be a bit shy as well.