Women & virginity?

Question

in your opinion, losing virginity before marriage,is it acceptable or not?
and reason is?
thX for anSwering ^^

Answer 1

Many people bring into relation with religion (like your question, you related with marriage).

In my opinion, the most important is not "losing virginity", but "giving her virginity" to someone who really loves and is loved. This feeling should be mutual.
It is a unique moment in women's life (men's also). If love exists, be sure that it will be beautiful and unforgettable.

Answer 2

Yes, it is very much acceptable. For one who sets the standards to say that it is not acceptable? As long as you believe it to be acceptable then do it. It shouldn't matter how others would view what you've done but how you view yourself. Personally I lost my virginity when I was 15 and I have no regrets, granted I am still with the same guy, but if I wasn't it would have just been a learning experience and lets face it, on your wedding night you really wouldn't want to go into having no experience would you?... Personally I don't understand the reasoning behind it being thought of as unacceptable when most marriages end in divorce so that "sacred" act that you waited so long to have with that one person you are going to experience with the next man you marry. Maybe if people would just experiment before marriage and have their fun sexually then more marriage would work out in the long run because people will know what they want since they were able to experience what they didn't want.

Answer 3

If you are a christian or a religious person it woudn´t be right but to me (I´m not religious) I don´t find any reason at all as to wait for marriage, so I don´t have any doubt it´s acceptable, it´s a way to make the relationship stronger and to really enjoy the time you are together, or even you can lose your virginity with no relationship at all just enjoying a party night, a lot of people would consider this a bad thing, but this is just old and religious thoughts, tell me please a scientific fact that would tell is wrong to do that.
But I do believe virginity has to be lost with someone special as you are always gonna remember it, and I think it might be better to be an adult.

Answer 4

To some people, the answer is yes, but not everyone has the same opinion. If you love yourself and the person you plan to marry, you would save yourself for that person. It's not just between the two of you, but most importantly it's between you and God as well. You can accept worldly's view or you can accept God's word.

Hebrews 13:4
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

Answer 5

It depends on a lot of things. What's right for another person may
be wrong for another. I wouldn't have sex just to have sex. My
daughter asked me when she was young, "mom, would you care
it I wasn,t a virgin when I get married? I told her " first of all it's none
of my business, but I would hope that you would be out of High
School and in a loving relationship" I was almost 25 when I had
sex with a guy I had been dating for 2 years. I had too much to drink
at a Christmas Party and it just happened. Things were different when I was growing up. I didn't regret it. I was probably relieved.
I didn't get married until age 30, but I didn't get married just to have sex. Sometimes I think it would have been nice to have sex
with my first love at 19, but you can't change who you are. It just
wasn't right for me. Don't let someone talk you into something you don't want to do. It has to be right for you. And nowdays
be sure you use a condom, there are too many diseases around.

Answer 6

It's absolutely acceptable for a woman to lose her virginity before marriage. For straight girls, if you really like a guy, and you think he feels the same way about you, you should make love to him. For lesbians, you can only marry in one state [Massachussets] so the only kind of sex you can have is premarital.

For any woman, there is no reason why she shouldn't become sexually active. Men don't wait til they get married to have sex, so why should women?

Answer 7

To be virgin or not before marriage is a very tough decision and is personal. It depends of your values and how you were raised.

I think that this don't have to be an issue anymore because this is 21st century!

Of course, I am not saying that is OK to be promiscuous and sleep with every person on Earth. That's not the idea.

In conclusion, we are more than hymen.

Answer 8

In the majority of many societies, sects, and groups, it is not acceptable, but since you said "in my opinion", I think it is (more)acceptable (now) because times and people's attitude change. Fifty years from now, society as a whole may have an entirely different view. But in today's thought, I think (since I believe loss of virginity is so common before marriage), more emphasis should be placed on birth control and disease prevention.

Answer 9

as long as the sexual relationship to be built up is not based on curiousity but based on the sake for solidifying and nurturing the relationship, otherwise, don't lose ur virginity blindly upon ur partner's demand. You should protect urself all the time. There is never too careful concerning this aspect.

Answer 10

Virginity is a very personal matter. If you want to loose your virginity after marriage, is your honorable choice, you give yourself to the man you are destined to share your life with. On the other hand if you choose to loose your virginity to a passing by boyfriend, again it is your choice.