Does he like me???

Question

We have two of the same classes 2gether he sits beside me in 1 and infront in the other. We are somewhat friends but not close friends. Most of the time he is nice to me but in front of his friends he can be mean. His friends think they are the rulers of the world. He is more popular than me but i am not with who the rest of the people call nerds. But when we are in class he is really nice to me. But we are just like the in school friends i never talk to him out of school unless i see him by coincidence. I cant just ask him because if he dont like me i will prolly never hear the end of it and all the progress i have made with him over the years will prolly be lost. Plz help me

Also we used to hate each other 5 years ago.

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Your best chance would be the make a move outside of those classes you have together.
When you're walking by in the hallway say hello and have a brief conversation with him.
That'll show him that you're confident enough to talk with him outside of those two classes and could possibly also show him that you're intrested in him.

Basically, without making a move to asking him out to a movie that's all you can do.
Continually have conversations with him both inside and outside the classroom. You two will get to know eachother better and that whole "more popular" then you thing will probably vanish in no time.

Good luck!

Answer 4

If he's being nice to you only when he's not with his friends it suggests that he has feelings for you but he's embarrassed to admit it. I'm sure he's not trying to be rude, he may just be worried about what his supposedly 'cool' friends may think!

If you really like him too, you could try to move your relationship on, and get to know each other better as mates. Ask him if you want to do something out of school as friends, not as in a date. If you spend more time with him doing something fun like going bowling, or shopping, or even just watching TV at your house, then you can get to know him better without the fear of rejection. Then, when you've built up more of an idea of how he feels about you, you can think about asking him out proper.

As they say, a good friendship can always develop into something bigger and better over time. If you become closer friends with him then it can only be a good thing!

Best of luck, I'm trying my hand with a girl at the moment and I know how worrying it can be! :)

Answer 5

Why are you stuck here?
You need to find someone who is his own
person. Someone who doesn't need to
show his meaness in front of his friends
just so he can prove his hip or macho or
anything like that.
So you already know he can be mean.
Are you looking to see how far he can go
with you? What if he doesn't get his way
with you and the beating starts?
What are you going to do then, blame yourself
and pretend it's all going to be worked out?
For your sake, please do not ignore the meaness this person has excibited. It could
be a sign of things to come.
I don't know, but I want you to take care of
yourself. I don't want to see you hurt.
Good luck to you.

Answer 6

If he's mean to you in front of his friends, he's a freak and not not secure at all...why put on a "tough" show for his friends that makes you feel bad? Then he's nice to you when his friends aren't around? "Progress over the years"? HooBoy! Put your efforts into someone who is nice, honest and doesn't play the head games! You deserve to be treated better...let him kick with his friends until he grows up!
Cheers!

Answer 7

This fellow that you have become fixated on is not likely to be worth even a fair-weather friendship. Please expand your horizons and look elsewhere. Nothing wrong with employing the wonderful art of feminine seduction on a different, more receptive, bloke.

Answer 8

It might sound old fashioned, but if he likes you and has guts, it is better that he makes the first step. You can send some encouraging signals, but if you do not get responded soon, move on.

Answer 9

he likes you as a friend
he doesnt like you in any other way
but if he starts to be more nice thn he has grown fond of you
dont say anything
jus carry on as it is

Answer 10

get to know him deep down and see if it helps and let him kno the real you then ask him, also try and hang out wit him outside if school just be like wat u doin this weekend, and if he says no try and move on no matter how hard it is but still try and be friends

Answer 11

Try getting his attention. Maybe he'll come around.