I am a college student
2007-01-14 02:21:06 · 16 answers · asked by running 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say thats pretty selfish of him, for sure..
2007-01-14 02:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Styles Gagan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter - really - if he was wrong or right. You chose your priorities (school) and he chose his (having a girlfriend who puts him above school). There doesn't have to be a good person and a bad person here - or a wrong and a right person. You just didn't jive. Also - there may have been other reasons he felt the need to move on - and that's all he's telling you - or it was the final straw.
Anyway - you chose to study - and it was a good decision. If he didn't support you in your studies - that doesn't make him wrong - it just means he isn't the right guy for you. And you're not the right gal for him. Simple.
Good luck finding a guy who shares your values. I'm sure he's out there. And I hope you did well on your finals!
2007-01-14 02:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend was not worth your time anyway, if he does not support you now, what would become of your futures together as your studies would determine both your financial statuses and success should you get married, yes! he was wrong , i suggest you keep him your ex!
NB! Education is the key to success, if he cared enough he would want what's best for u.I would also portray him to been a selfish person. Although if he is willing to accept the fact that you have commitments and goals and is willing to support you through it, then you may have hope of a future together.
2007-01-14 02:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he was prolly very stupid to get rid of someone as obviously bright as you are, but then the chances are that he would not of been able to keep up with you anyway and I am almost sure that you are better off without him. I know you could do without the extra suffering while going through such a tough time in your life, but at the end of the day your going to have an amazing job with great exam results and be able to have the pick of the bunch anyway. Either he was very stoopid or very selfless, either way he did you a faver, he just picked a stupid *** time to do it.
best of luck with the exams * hugs*
2007-01-14 02:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running (from what?)
It's a very provocative Question:
and the Answer is:
Of course HE WAS!!!
However, that may not have been the real of main reason he bailed, I'm sorry! There may have been other other reasons.
Jeepers, it seems people do not talk to each other about the relationships I think we all assume far too much at times
Sure it's is his loss, what now? Well that is up to you!
Best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cheers...
2007-01-14 02:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Gem of Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse he was wrong... he had to think that this is your future and he had to step back. He was so selfish to think only himself. If he loved you, he had to give you strenght and courage to study, and not having fights with you and making you stressed and sad because of his attitude. He had to be supportive for your exams, but instead he dumped you in this crusial period...!
2007-01-14 02:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by HeAvEnLy_PiNk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! that is the one of shittiest things i've ever heard of a guy doing to his girlfriend. My boyfriend ALWAYS understands when we have to study, and can't talk or go out somewhere. (we're highschool seniors, who go to different schools.) You did nothing wrong and don't loose any sleep over this jacka$$.
2007-01-14 02:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just really stupid. If he cared enough about the relationship he wouldn't break up for something that's temporary and that is out of your control. It was a scapegoat for a break up.
2007-01-14 02:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by tranquil.dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definatly. in a situation like this it seems like he was trying to find an excuse to get out of a relationship. college comes first, and finals are huge. if you couldnt spend time with him cause of them.... he shoudl be able to understand. in my opinion your better off without him.
2007-01-14 02:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by newyork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Youre better off without him.
if he doesnt wanna be flexible thats not youre problem.
and if he loved u, he would come to you, and be supportive
2007-01-14 02:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by the ultimate lacrosse player 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes his is. He should respect that fact of your education. Thats more important.
2007-01-14 02:26:20 · answer #11 · answered by *RaP sTaR* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋