I dont know whether to ask him if he likes me because he's said stuff like "u cant escape me..." when were hugging and stuff so any tips or answers?
2007-01-14 02:16:35 · 19 answers · asked by Hanni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, don't let him take advantage of you. You like him, he's coming on to you physically. You are in a very vulnerable situation. The last thing you want is to get sexually involved.
Teen age boys are so hormone addled they will do anything to get into a girl's pants.
But do not dispair, boys do improve with age.
2007-01-14 02:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kinda creepy to me, but I take it that you find the guy attractive since you are asking the question, and I can't tell the way he is saying, "you can't escape me..." (Didn't the killer say something like this...oh wait...that was "Have you checked on the children?" anyway...
One clue is if he is also doing the same with other girls. Ask around, women will tell you if he is an octopus...believe me.
If not, maybe he is attracted to you, but does he talk to you? Or is he just all over you? There is a big difference between the guy who wants you as a person from the one who wants a one night stand.
My take: Ask the guy out to coffee and see if you "click" in your conversation. If the guy just wants to talk about sexual things then you have your answer;) (this is one area where women make their most common mistake--after all cosmo says to get a man you need to sex him up right? Wrong!)
In the end you should see if you would like to go out with him rather than just admiring the fact he puts his hands all over you.
Good luck!
2007-01-14 10:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Eric K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl! I feel you seem to like him coz you bother to ponder over a simple phrase that he may be saying like "u can't escape me", which may have been said quite frivolously.
What you could do is, next time that he hugs you, you could softly whisper into his ears it's great receiving a hug from you and wait for his response. If he simply smiles and gives you another warm squeeze, possibilty is that the guy likes you. But if he misses those invaluable words and you notice no visible change in the way he responds to you then you would know that all his words and action is merely a flirtatious gesture.
By far the best way to check whether he likes you is by sending one of these cute e-cards from http://www.123greetings.com/events/hug_day/ for fun's sake and wait to see how he reacts to them. If he finds them sweet and sends you back another to thank you, then he surely likes you, but if he finds them funny and asks why you're sending him that instead of giving him a real one, then you would know he is simply having a good time with you and perhaps you are reading too much into it.
All the best!!!
2007-01-18 05:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by lisa.reeves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let guys cuddle and hug you if you dont know how they feel. IT is very dangerous as it could mean that they only want to be physical..or it might mean that they really like you and want to be the special one for you. But is is very hard to see the difference while they are cuddling you.
Take care, and respect yourself
2007-01-14 10:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean and I have experienced the same thing. I have found that the best thing you can do is not call him one day or kind of pretend he isn't there but don't ignore you if he approaches you. You will be able to tell if he likes you, he will be calling you all the time. You shouldn't have to ask him because his actions should show it! I hope this helps.
2007-01-14 10:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he definitely likes you! Just say something flirtacious when he hugs you like "Who said I wanted to escape" or something else like that. That should work. If you don't want to say that just smile and don't try to get away, that should give the same message.
2007-01-14 10:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by ŤÏҒҒǻńỷ™ ♀ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obvious he likes you...or he could just be trying to get in your pants. Either way you need to talk and find out.
2007-01-14 10:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he says that again, ask him what the hell he's talking about. He could just be teasing, but he could also be too possessive.
2007-01-14 10:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Meridianhawk42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a guy friend like that.... and i think he is just physically attracted to me.... or i should say he is a little tired of his own gf... so.. don't take it serious. just see how it goes...
2007-01-14 10:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Love cake:-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him whats up and how he feels but it sounds to me like he must have feelings for you.
2007-01-14 10:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋