My very recently ex's grandma is dying she was given 24-48 hrs to live I found out about it and I probably should call and say somethin but I dont know what to say exactly b/c I still have hurt feelings about our situation and I dont want to talk to him but I know I should call. What exactly should I say? be specific please. I dont want to say anything like your in my prayers b/c that is not something that I would say and it will sound fake.
2007-01-14 02:13:07 · 14 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey sorry to hear about your ex's Gma. I wouldn't know since i don't know the situation but tell her what you feel in your heart to say. you will never get this time back, you don't have time to get over everythign that's hurting you maybe say" i know we have had problems and not made things right but I'm so sorry about all that.... let's make is right and just know that it's all ok. Is there anything i can do for you??" or just say what you know you should
2007-01-14 02:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont want to talk to him send him a text!!put your feelings aside for the minute and show how mature you can be by calling or texting and asking him how hes feeling?!?its not difficult and sometimes when someone close dies all you want is someone to listen to you!so offer a shoulder to cry on and tell him your sorry to hear about it!good luck xxxx
2007-01-14 10:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by lil Miss Irish 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just call and talk to her.
At a time like this there is nothing right or wrong to say.
Sorry to hear about this.
Good Luck
2007-01-14 10:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. just call and say something like:
hy i heard about your grandmother and i was just wondering if she was o.k. how has she been? listen i know we still have mixed feelings about each other and i know this won't change that but i felt really bad about not calling earlier.
or something like that.
2007-01-14 10:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to hear that..
"thank you for being a good grandmom
mmm... i love you"
i think that's enough. otherwise she'll feel bad if u added anything like miss u and stuff
2007-01-14 10:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say i heard about your grandma and that is very sad i'm really sorry and say if you ever wanna talk call me!
2007-01-14 10:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Emily P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say..m calling because i still care..i hope thatu and ur family will make it through fine during this period and tell him that if he needs anything..he can always come to u..
2007-01-14 10:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by lemony l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something like" i feel real bad i really do" or " sorry about your grandma"
2007-01-14 10:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by crazierachie22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to talk than send him a card with your condolences.
2007-01-14 10:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that they can always talk to you, that you will listen. and that you will spend time with them/they can cry on your shouder. basically, show that you care.
2007-01-14 10:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by celine marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋