2007-01-14 01:36:30 · 11 answers · asked by hala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because "expectations are resentments in the making". When you love someone, you expect a lot from the person. Thus, when he/she fails you, you felt disappointed. Try thinking back of the expectations you had in him/her instead of why he/she. And then when you find out it's not a mistake, it wouldn't be about forgiving anymore but more to understanding.
2007-01-14 01:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by the DoEr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it isn't hard at all, it depends on what the person did to hurt you. If it is something trivial then usually forgiveness comes pretty easy. It make take a day or two but that is about it. If the person did something really bad to hurt you then they are stomping on your morals and values. Most people pick partners that have the same morals and values and when trust is broken then it is like they never shared the same morals and values with you.
For some people they have been hurt so much that it is like the person is chopping each branch of love that is growing or has grown on the tree of love for them.
2007-01-14 09:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is actually not hard, it is just hard to make yourself to forgive people, letting go is the most important part in life that we have to learn without grief..
2007-01-14 09:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by m_faery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you love someone, you let them inside the walls you have built up around yourself. Your friends (the ones you dont love) are outside thoes walls, so when they hurt you it does not hurt so bad. But when someone you love hurts you, it hurts more because they are inside the walls.
Hope this helps, dont give up on love! Because Love will not give up on you! :-D
~Joker420
2007-01-14 09:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by j0kr420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the situation I guess.
Most likely you feel your love is betrayed
2007-01-14 09:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by hhfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the person that you love is the one person you expect never to hurt you. that is the person you would do anything for and when that person hurts you, you feel betrayed. you feel that person doenst feel the same about you as you feel about them anymore.
2007-01-14 09:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the feelings are deeper when you love someone thats why it takes more time
2007-01-14 09:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz most the time the people that you love are the ones that can hurt you the most... they have the most power...
2007-01-14 09:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah Jones101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it is difficult because u love him/her and don't want to lose them so mistakes are only done by humans so forget them all and cotinue living happly:)
2007-01-14 09:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by bahrain guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you must not him enough or for the right reasons.
2007-01-14 09:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋