not that your fighting but just to find peace..not forgive and forget
2007-01-14 01:35:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sometimes it depends what you are having to find peace with them for. For me with my ex it was time. It also helps if you do not have to see each other that way you can get your thoughts in order and get some honest perspective of the situation without everything being clouded. It is worth it however because when you make peace with a situation and a person you empower yourself to move on and rise above the situation and that is what is most important. So don't worry what anyone else thinks do whatever is right for you to put the situation behind you. Good luck.
2007-01-14 01:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by KristinaMaria 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to realize that everyone has differences and no one is the same. Not everyone is ment to be together or stay together.
Sometimes people come into your life for a short time and sometimes for a long time but always for a reason. Each time showing you something in your life.
Forgive your ex and forgive yourself. Learn from the things that you may or he may have done. Also realize that you are both moving in different directions in your life now and there is nothing wrong with that.
You dont have to hate the other person, just wish them the best and that they can find happiness and remeber you deserve happiness as well then maybe you can find peace. good luck.
2007-01-14 01:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all you need to forgive, NOT FORGET, in order to move ahead with finding peace. Don't spend too much time on this, their your ex, now it time to focus on you and maybe another special someone. Good luck!
2007-01-14 01:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you expect us to give you advice, then you take that option away from us?
The answer is that you have to let things go that bothered you about your relationship. You have to stop obsessing about what he did and didn't do that made you fight together. You have to accept him as he is, and hope he will give you the same courtesy. THAT is how you find peace between yourself and an ex.
It is also referred to and learning to forgive and forget.
2007-01-14 01:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Some people are insistive of being angry and mean, regardless of how you want to patch up old hurts.
The best piece of advice: Own up for the things you did or didn't do, apologize for it. Be done with it.
Most of all, you need peace with yourself. Quit beating yourself up over how it failed. Move on, and be greatful your life doesn't have so much hostility in it anymore.
2007-01-14 01:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by K H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only way to find peace is to forgive.....yourself and him. Look ahead in your life and don't harbor hate and revenge....it worked for me. My relationships with my ex is wonderful and it is due to having three kids and 4 grandbabies.
2007-01-14 01:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well my EX ran off to Ft Lauderdale,Fl eight years ago. She left me and my 9 yr old son to be with some guy she barely knew.
I say you find peace when you just let it go and move on and not be obsessed with it.
2007-01-14 01:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Carl P 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just know and have peace in your hearts that you both accept that you made the right decision to part.
2007-01-14 01:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the only thing you can do is wait and you will find peace
2007-01-14 01:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by manson1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start a dialogue with that person in the form of emails or letters. Until you are comfortable with confronting the person, face to face...
2007-01-14 01:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by missionman1914 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋