i was messing wit my boyfriend nd den i said sumthim like just die nd he took it reli seriously (even though i was just messin) nd he broke up wit me....iv said sorry but he just said i dont care how sorry u are u still shudn of said it!! i reli like dis guy nd i reli want him back so please help me
2007-01-14 01:25:30 · 20 answers · asked by kate m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
darling
just pamper him with sweet words .... eventually he willl give in and apart from that .. he too loves u and he just wanted to make u feel hurted for watever u have done to him ....
drop few precious tears for urs and he will be with u ....
all the best
2007-01-14 01:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just take time and some space for him to realize that you really are sorry and never ment what you said.
If he wont listen to you try sending him a email or writing him a letter and letting him know how you really feel. Just be honest with him and let him know that you did not intend for it to be a serious statement.
After you do send him a letter, then its upto him what he does. Give him some time but you may have to learn from your mistakes if he doesnt forgive you. Just try to be more careful with your words the next time.
You may also have to face the fact that if you were just joking that he was just looking for a way to end the relationship why else would he take a joke and make into something so serious?? good luck.
2007-01-14 09:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the past to your advantage, if he's ever complimented your outfit, wear it again or share a light-hearted memory with him.
When you talk to him, listen carefully to his choice of words, if he ever uses an unusual or uncommon word, casually slip it into the conversation again. This subconsciously tells him that he and you are similar due to exclusive and similar ways of talking.
Be honest to him and yourself. Do not lie.
Subtly touch him when talking.
Wear make up that works for you, though dark eyes and light lips look sexy on just about every woman.
Keep your distance while trying to pursue him, this will leave him thinking about you after your friendly appearances and thus finding himself wanting you.
Be positive around him, laugh and smile.
Pay attention to other people around you two, this leaves him waiting for more attention and he can also see that you have a lot to offer and that a lot of people enjoy your company.
Leave before he does, whether it be at a party or in a conversation; you have a full life and he just has time to think about you.
Do not talk about him behind his back.
Do not stalk him! He might think you are a bit too desperate!
2007-01-14 09:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already said your sorry. you will have to learn from this and NEVER say thing's like that again. Those are harsh words, but I'm sure you already know that. Try giving him some time. He probably really got his feeling's hurt (whether he admits to it or not). It's time to do some @ss kissing! LOL! I too have said thing's and then went "OOPS" when you know you have taken it just a bit to far in the fit of rage. Apologize again and let him know how you feel about him.
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-01-14 09:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm just try to get him to a candle light dinner, at a appropriate time just look deep in his eyes & say i m sorry wid liitle tears in ur eyes. Surely he will melt take sum roses too.
2007-01-14 20:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what you just said... be like " i really like you and i never meant to hurt you and i know sorry doesnt help because its just words... but i dont care if this doesnt help (even though you really do) but i just want you to know that im sorry"
2007-01-14 09:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by xo_kelbel_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think about writing him a love letter,not a phone message,a love letter! You can put there some photos with you two,if you have,and there you can explain the whole thing! Surprise him!
2007-01-18 08:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by CrisTynutza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down to the nearest sporting goods store and buy a set of skater's knee pads...and get to work!
2007-01-14 09:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think next time before you speak because sometimes small words can damage people . but it sonds like this guy doesnt want you back anyway no matter what you say . find someone else
2007-01-14 09:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by aadilah d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess the truth and request to forgive you and you have to promise that it would not be repeated
2007-01-14 09:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋