Why do guys feel inadequate?

Question

Why is it that a lot of men are scared or feel inadequate compared to sex toys, esp of their ladies have them? I cannot see why?! Surely it's not just a size thing?
A man and a sex toy are for different uses, even if the result is the same. I'd never expect to find a man that can spin and vibrate at high speed!! (if only!)
So c'mon guys whats to fear? I'm fascinated!

Answer 1

to me i think every man is diffrenti think personaly it is sexy to watch you lover with her toys and not a threat on the other hand some men i think it is a threat becuase they dont think they are big enough it is just ego thing with us most men get over it after the GF/wife exsplains it is just fun well i hope i answered with good intentions send me email if have any more good luck

Answer 2

Are you sure that a lot of men feel intimidated by the idea of women masturbating? These are masturbatory tools - its impossible to perform the copulative act with one! In fact if one ever does get someone pregnant they should sell their story real quick before the whole thing goes sour.

You'll find that dildoes can rarely hold down a job and once you run outta batteries he'll be off like a shot.

So I suppose the thing some men aren't crazy about is akin to what some women feel when a man shows her his collection of porn. The idea that you're getting it somewhere else - even if it is from yourself.

Having said that it doesn't bother me or any of my mates really

Answer 3

it has been said by better than me that if someone invents a vibrator that can also mow the lawn, marriage will become obsolete. some men view toys as competitors that they cannot best because only a toy can perform on demand 100% of the time..a girl with toys doesn't need a man. personally, i like a girl with lots of toys! the voyeur in me likes watching a girl please herself. maybe you just haven't found the right man yet. try finding one that likes toys, too!

Answer 4

dont fear it at all, love watching women use a toy in fact. Do you have a toy and does your guy feel inadequate against it?

Answer 5

i dont fear the sex toy, in fact i think they are great. i had a girlfriend once who always carried a couple in her hand bag, we had some real fun and she was superb between the sheets. we always used toys and she loved me to use vibrators on her, but i had to put a stop to it it when she tried inserting it up my bum!!! thats going to far.
these days im married and although we look in the anne summers shop when we pass my wife still hasnt got any sex toys - just me

Answer 6

My (then) girlfriend introduced a vibrator into our sex lives and I hated it. If the rabbit is in there where's the fun in it for me?

If I was feeling lazy I could just press the buttons and I didnt have to do anything though.

Answer 7

well i was looking for some one in to this things, now i found you, hehehh, just joking, men feel left in the shelf, some time they thinks you prefer toys than the real mockoy, it really fun when they try it, get the women in good mood, + orgasm, it Asama when you hear that sound turn you on you can do it all nights, guys try it what you going to loss

Answer 8

Well, I don't feel inadequate. Honestly, never had a conversation with a guy who said they did. And we discuss sex a LOT.

Answer 9

Possibly your persona for a start,or maybe we are having an off day ? you lot get headaches!Not so much a fear possibly a feeling of being rejected for all the wrong reasons,you know what we are like?

Answer 10

Because they are. No seriously. The female anatomy is still a mystery to many men and it's much more of a challenge to bring a woman to climax than it is for the guy. I've yet to meet a man who was intimidated by my "accessories", and I'm afraid I'd be very amused if I did.