Boyfriend says he's bored with life...
boyfriend of 9 months says he is bored not with me but with his life in general, when i ask him about he says he does not feel like talking about it. I as him if he is bored with me and he said no.
he also said that this weekend he wanted to just stay home alone and not go out as he said that we did lots of stuff the past few weekends, but then when i said i wanted to do something alone the next day he got mad, he mentioned to me on new years day too that he had "philsophy" on relationships and that nothing lasts forever, when i started putting all this together in relationship to him and I he said that I was overreacting....what should i do? what does this mean? Should i leave him alone or try to help
2007-01-14 00:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he might be lying to you about the not being bored with you and he might be dating someone else and cheating on you...
i think it might be time for you to break up with him
2007-01-14 06:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by spice18536 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People often become dissatisfied once they achieve something in life, whether it's a relationship, a job promotion, a great vacation. Whatever. Nothing does last "forever" - one person either leaves or dies. Maybe the guy suffers from depression or is unsure what direction he wants his life to go. Try to help as long as you have the patience then assess the situation honestly before YOU become the unhappy one. You get one shot at this life and can't waste a single day being miserable.
2007-01-14 01:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think his bored with everything and yes including you, maybe his bored with his life and feeling a little bit down so he feels the need to be sick of everything/everyone including you also.
dont go in a mood with him and DO NOT be a pest cos if he is feeling this towards you and ur asking to see him all the time or being a pest on the phone his going to get sick! i think his just going through one of those stages in his life where his fed up with things, and we all get like that.
what you need to do now is let him know ur there for him if he wants to chat about anything, and LEAVE HIM BE, dont be nasty and dont ignore him, just let him know you understand how his feeling and give him some space, that way his got to come after you **winks** get my drift!? and believe me he will cheer up in his own time!
dont worry too much about this as i dont feel it is just you i think its everything around him, we all get like that sometimes :)
2007-01-14 01:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs more excitement in life. look for other signs of depression. Being depressed you have no interest in anything and some depressed people get suicidal. With him saying he is bored etc I would say he has a bit of depression. In that case be there for him without smothering him.
2007-01-14 01:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and see if he comes out of his slump if not wait sometime then try to discuss it with him if it is effecting you in some way make sure you bring this up to him
2007-01-14 01:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by john t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him some space, live him home.
it look like need to listen to himself.
no matter what u will say, it won't change his way of thinking in fact, it will make it worst.
just don't say anything about it and if he want to be home support him, he might think " oh she was supporse to be mad at me or some thing"
i believe that your bf need some space so he can hear himself and think things through
2007-01-14 01:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get a job and move out of his grandma's house. Grandma ain't putting out no more.
2007-01-14 01:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by glitter l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's lying and he's bored with you, but what do I know?
2007-01-14 00:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give him head
2007-01-14 00:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋