worried or thinking too much into it???

Question

so the other night i was with my boyfriend at his friends house. he really looks up to this friend as he is older and very knowledgable. His friend was talking about how he attaracs werid girls and said "but now im 40 and single" my boyfriend reply with "that would be cool i wouldnt mind that (looked at me) dont you rekcon". he used too always say how he wanted to marry me and move in together. he also hasnt been as affectionate and we havent made love for like 3 week. i have a feeling he may just be comfortable we still do the same things and hang out more often. im am so not the dream about wedding day girl so not fased by that stuff. i know i should just confront him but am i just worring about nothing

Answer 1

Confront him?

Try ask him.

But no, you are not over-reacting.

Answer 2

i think you dont need to use that comment as a judge for your fears there... there is either something not right or its all fine. everyone goes through some crap of course but if the affection thing is bugging you just consider if it is, or will have, a lasting affect on you. the comment he was interested in doesnt seem to say he wants that or he may have been more forceful and prob wouldnt have said it with you around. but in your heart/gut you know what else youre really thinking. dont ignore it but work out how it makes you feel and if thats the future you want :)

Answer 3

Communication is the Key in any Good relationship.
Talk to him.
You may hear things you might not want too, however it
will be better not worrying all the time either.
or ....
maybe you are worrying for nothing.....
Won't know unless you talk to him

best wishes

Answer 4

Talk to him and ask him how he feels and maybe the two of you can work out your problems

Answer 5

Just talk to him & sort it out. You just never kow until you ask.

Answer 6

just confront him