was just wondering what everyone thought on the situation.Would you end the pregnancy or keep the child even if you did'nt know who the father was?I personally dont like abortion, only if the child has disabillities and wont survive or you've been raped then i think it's acceptable.
2007-01-14 00:12:25 · 16 answers · asked by nanook570 5 in Health ➔ Other - Health
When a woman or girl has been raped, it was an "unwanted" and "unasked" act. Therefore, I would not condemn her for aborting the child or giving it up for adoption. Though, in cases of incestuous rape, the baby can develop serious mental or physical disabilities. I would choose abortion as the only option.
A woman who choose to keep the child is an angel, for it requires a very strong will, discipline and nurturing instincts to want to care for a child of a violent man.
2007-01-14 00:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by S H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pro-choice and in this case, i'd suggest and abortion for afew different reasons. First of all, the child would be a product of a violent crime and a constant reminder of what happened. Of course it's not the childs fault. Second, what if, the father of the child at some point, wanted to be involved?. Being the father there might be a possibilty that he could be granted rights. Who knows if that would happen but there may be a slim chance. Instead of abortion maybe adoption as an alternative. But
then the kid grows up knowing nobody wanted them and that's sad also
2007-01-14 00:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by prettyboldblonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 01:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that would be a hard decision for me. I realy don't like the idea of abortion, but I am very young and could not handle being a mother I know that. I would probably get an abortion as much as I hate to say it. 10% chance I might have the baby and put it up for adoption. I am under the age of 17 so...
2007-01-14 00:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abort, definitely. A traumatic experience should not be continued.
Your right is just as important and you do not want that raping incident as a reminder. It is a good reason for psychological well being of the mother.
Of course the child is innocent in this incident. But reminder? no, it shouldn't. Get the fetus out as early in your preg as you can.
It is called turning a new page and erasing a bad memory.
2007-01-14 00:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the rights of the mother outweigh those of the baby´s or vice versa. I guess 50/50 as to each persons rights.
But because the mother´s life would be impacted so greatly, the final choice would be with the mother.
If you believe that life continues, and that you don´t really die then the issue becomes a little clearer. The soul that occupies the baby never dies, and will have the choice to be born again.
Still a tough decision within our current cultural mould.
2007-01-14 00:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by turniton5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, that's a tough one. I think if I were raped, I'd get something from the hospital the day of to prevent the pregnancy from happening thereby avoiding having to make such a decision.
But much like you, I can't imagine having an abortion: with or without disabilites. A child having a disability doesn't make him/her not worth having. He will still have value in the world.
2007-01-14 00:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't know and I hope I'll never have to. There are many women who have survived rape and bore the resulting child. It's not the child's fault although a reminder of the face of the rapist could be difficult for the mother. With enough counseling, it could probably work out fine.
It's a situation I wouldn't wish on anyone.
2007-01-14 00:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I would not keep the baby. Although some people would say that the unborn child is innocent and deserve a life. Well, I deserve a life too, I think I would not be able to stand to see the fruit of the person who raped me.
2007-01-14 00:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thankfully, I didn't get pregnant when I was raped. I don't know. I guess if I had no way of providing a healthy environment or it I wouldn't keep it. I'd give it up for adoption.
2007-01-14 00:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by audrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋