Last week I mailed him a letter re: us getting back together and he told me he was in a relationship which i semi believe but that is not the problem the problem is that my mom spoke with his dad 2 days ago b/c they are friends thats how we met and his grandmother was given 24-48 hrs to live and they will be leaving to go there in the next couple days. Now I feel like I should call him and say something re:this but I am so hurt and I dont know if I can handle it yet I thought about mailing a card but his grandma may not be dead yet and she might even live b/c they have been told this b4. I really care about him and part of me believes that he may not have a GF, which is a long story I think he told me that to see my rxn either way Im hurt Ive cried just about every day this week and if I call I dont know what to say, What should I do? and say to him or should say anything at all. Just b/c he an asshole I dont have to be and dont want to be. What should I do?
2007-01-13 23:35:52 · 3 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have ask ques b4 regarding the same situation read my Q and A if interested
2007-01-13 23:36:35 · update #1
We did not end on bad terms I was very mature about it I wished him the very best with his new relationship.
2007-01-13 23:48:16 · update #2
but if he is in a relationship he doesnt need my shoulder to cry on.
2007-01-13 23:50:04 · update #3
Right now he may be going through a lot and that's why he said he have a girlfriend b/c he don't want to be hurt again. but if you believe that hes lying about this girl , ur probably right and if you really want to be with him you'll have to put aside what ever it is that your angry about b/c if you can get through to each other it just might be helpful to both of you I'm sure he needs a shoulder to cry on especially at a time like now just as much as you need one so i would get in contact with him, besides in not healthy cry everyday b/c soon its going to turn into stress. Good Luck!!
2007-01-13 23:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by germeka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Keep your feelings to urself for now. Guys run when they know that girl is attached. YOu know the saying, " men love bitches!" Stop calling and he will seek you eventually.
As far as this grandma, you shouldn't contact him, let someone in his family call! Obviousely, he's annoyed and does not want a relationship with you at this time. But hang in there, when you've went on... and have forgotten about him.... He WILL CALL ^^*
2007-01-13 23:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by sunkist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, i cant answer correctly without being a complete asshole.
2007-01-13 23:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋