There's this girl i'm interested in, not sure if she's interested in me or not but we've gone out before. I send her messages and she replies to nearly every one of them, but she rarely / never messages me. Sometimes i call and talk to to her but it's not often. She sometimes mentions this other guy, and even though it annoys me, i pretend to not notice (though sometimes i mention some other girl and she ignores / laughs it off). It's kind of confusing, what do you think? I invited her out again, do you think i could clear this mess up by asking her if she likes me?
2007-01-13 23:25:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the sake of making things short, i left out the background info.
2007-01-13 23:29:18 · update #1
I asked background info in another question, feel free to read on: (it's a lot more detailed)
http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Arn8iVTk2wOSxvZz8pyyCEr44gt.?qid=20070114051202AANccC9
2007-01-14 00:33:56 · update #2
of course man you should clear this mess up by making yourself clear ..... how can she know about your feelings if you don't tell her ?? don't be shy .... be a man ..... most of woman likes men with attitude ..... at least try to do so .... and let's see what's gonna happen .... if doesn't work .... at least you tried .... good luck
2007-01-13 23:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by wbaiers_sch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't care what kind of person you are you sound a real catch for someone, and its always hard to get off the mark you are trying to hard(you can always do better)
women always want what they cant have if you are unobtainable then you are Hot. this is what you do, go to a party (when you know this girl will be there)with a 10/10 girl even if you have to pay her only have eyes for your date all night but don't ignore this girl you like do at least say hi this lets her know that you have acknowledged her and this is polite then disappear without trace later on . give it 2 days if she wanted you she would call ,she would be so gelluos she will go out of her way to snag you. always have an air of confidence about yourself don't panic when things go wrong try not to show any disappointment in your face always have a smile and take up poker this is important as any sign of eagerness or disappointment will show in your face women will spot this a mile away if she don't call move on accept it wait for her to call you even if its six months be cool when she rings don't say why have you not called (COVER BLOWN ) just say good to here from you play it cool good luck
remeber all the 10/10 girls like to be asked they end up having a poor night out while all the 2/10 girls are haveing their leg over because they are easier to talk to but the guys are to frightened to ask the 10's in case they say no if they say no move on the more you ask and the more your confidece grows the easier this is women seeing you in the company of a 10 all the time will be courous and they will start to approch you this is hard work but you must do this everyh night constantly for 6 months to get good then you can pick and choose. if this rule is not followed this leaves more 10's for me remember the sales man who makes no calls makes no sales
2007-01-14 00:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by John C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wasn't interested she would have never answered any of your mail and she sure would not have entertained any conversation with you so we know she's interested and we know your interested. Now you have to decide if your going to keep playing cat and mouse and wait for something to develop between her and this other guy or are you going to stop playing games and go after her, because sooner or later she's going to find something else to fill that time she spend talking to you.
2007-01-13 23:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by germeka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-13 23:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got good news and bad news for you. I'll give you the bad first to get past all the ugly stuff. You're a friend. The good news is that you will have to do something really special to change this label you have on you.
2007-01-13 23:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you invited her out again, so see where it goes from there. I wouldn't kill the mood or anything by asking that question at an inappropriate time, but if you think you could sneak the question in then go for it. I don't think you need to 'cause you make it sound as if you're dating (you're 'going out', right?) so I dunno.
Just go out with her and see what happens.
2007-01-13 23:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Deconstitutionalization 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun ask her if she likes u...coz if she does she will show u...and if she doesn't chances are she doesn't and by askin will only make it awkward for u both...
gals often reply msgs..even if they dun like a guy...they just wanna msg for the sake of havin someone to talk to...the fact that she mentions another guy..chances are she doesn't realli have feelins for u...or else she wouldn't mention another guy...so just let her go if she ain't interested or else u'll hurt urself
2007-01-13 23:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww in keeping with possibility given which you have slightly greater time to get to comprehend her you may ask her questions approximately her being interested in a dating. Get her factor of veiws. so which you will get a thought of ways she works so which you wont be overwhelmed. sturdy success ;]
2016-12-16 04:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by marianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet her, ask her if she likes anyone else. if she does then back off and if she says no she doesn't then tell her u like her. simple :) there's no other way ur gonna find out cos ur both giving each other mixed signals.
2007-01-13 23:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her on a date to find out. Better to get it from the source than keep on guessing.
2007-01-13 23:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋