well,i have a bff and she is a fun,nice and friendly girl.she is also very pretty.and whenever we go out alot of guys will flirt and ask her for her phone number.and she will spend most of her time texting the guy infront of me(not showing off or anything)and everytime she complains about having a boyfriend and i have to console her.
she keeps saying that she's fat or ugly when she is not!and i am incridebly jealous of her.she is an only child and is spolit by her parents and she gets anything she wants.she is also clever and quite popular in school and i'm not.and sometimes i'm angry at her because i'm jealous.
please give me some advise!!
no rubbish answer please.
2007-01-13 23:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The boys who are interested in her are obviously quite shallow. They are probably not worth your time since they would probably dump her later for some one better looking. Quit selling yourself you must have some good qualities in yourself. Boys just haven't found them yet. Maybe you should hang around with a different set of friends. I'm sure when the right boy becomes interested in you it will be more than for superficial looks.
2007-01-13 23:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sassy,
You have to learn that in life some people just seem to get a lot of breaks, which can make life easier '(not really but it seems that way).
Let her do what she wants, being happy will bring you nothing but resentment. You can't do anything about how she acts. It is like not liking the rain and telling the sky to stop. It will not work
Take is easy..
2007-01-13 23:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by ted j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. You need to find ways of putting forth your strengths. Beauty is not something that is seen from the surface. Beauty radiates outward from within......When you have a beautiful inner self, everyone will think you are beautiful outwardly too. If she is truly your friend, then you should be happy for her when she does something well or good fortune smiles upon her, just as she should with you.
2007-01-13 23:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Stryder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a good friend if you are that jealous of her. If you value your friendship then you need to do some serious working on those feelings. You should be enjoying life. Stop spending your time finding things to be jealous about concerning your friend.
2007-01-13 23:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by lisaraye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty things you can do. Do what the other people tell you to do and DON'T do what i tell you to do.
1. DON'T get extremely jealous and try to mimic her.
2. DON'T start trying to act like her.
3. DON'T just complain, do something about it, if it's all the boys she gets then why don't you try getting a bf then. They make things better for girls.
2007-01-13 23:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how to help you with this. when i was in High school i was in the place. my Best friend did tell me till after. i always like to talk to the girls. he was always a shy person. and dont get me wrong my friend was pretty okay looking too i guess. and so he told me that he would get mad at me cuz we go out and i always get numbers and talk to a lot of girls. and i asked him how you over come that. cuz if that was me i told him i would have been very mad. He said even though he doesnt get all the girls numbers and ETC. he knows that one day the right person will be their for him. and now he has been with his girlfriend for about 3 years and about to get merried. so dont worry its okay to be jealous just watch it. i hope that helps take care
2007-01-13 23:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Gum Mo Jai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel when she is texting boys when she is supposed to be spending time with you. You could also let her know that you wish more boys would give you their numbers and she will hopefully connect the dots and realise she may be being insensitive.
Good Luck!
2007-01-13 23:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by milljanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start picking up on things she does ask her opinion on your clothes. Tell her you want to have guys chasing you but need her help. She wiill want to feel she has helped you and you will find that more guys will ask you also.
2007-01-13 23:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not jealous! you just want to be like her but you can not! well, STOP that! theres something in you that she doesnt have! try to see for yourself and not for her and for others. we are all unique anyway!
2007-01-13 23:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by m0cca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋