Im 18 and when I met my boyfriend he already had a girlfriend but we ended up seeing each other and eventually had sex. He then broke up with his girlfriend and we are now together. The problem is I told him I'd already had sex because I was embarrased about not having done it yet and didn't think it would matter if I didn't tell him. However I did tell one of our mutual friends that I was a virgin and I think he may have told my boyfriend. The problem is I don't want to tell him but do, because i don't want him to think of me as a liar or get angry or annoyed with me and end our relationship.
2007-01-13 22:27:50 · 11 answers · asked by Amelia R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can tell him, he won't care, he'll think it's cute, he'll still like you, He REALLY won't care at all, take it from a guy, this happened to me (same exact scenario), it happened 20 years ago, now we're married with 2 kids, house, jobs, lives, etc...
2007-01-13 22:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and trust me, if he finds out you are a virgin still that will totally turn him on. Forget the lying to him stuff, guys like to have virgins, the like to be the first to conquer something, also it would be worse if the mutual friend did tell him and you still won't as long as you come clean, he will be very turned on.
2007-01-14 06:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first never will end his relationship with u,second he will get all the honey which u will offer him,so he will be lucky,and will be glad with what he will eat fm ur virgin ,he is lucky, but the most necessary is to be love between u and ur boyfriend, so give him ur honey and let him enjoy it ALL and have nice SEX always
2007-01-14 06:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats to be embarassed about? some people dont have sex until their early 20s. As long as ur not like 35 or whatever its ok. just tell him.
2007-01-14 06:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How angry or annoyed can he get? He's a cheater, after all.
2007-01-14 06:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are, im sure he would probably prefer it more.
2007-01-14 06:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he finds out u lied just say "yeh i didnt know if i was or wasnt at the time because we wer both drunk"
2007-01-14 06:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you told another guy but you didn't tell your boyfriend???
2007-01-14 06:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy -- always
2007-01-14 06:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't care.. unless he's wierd....
2007-01-14 06:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by qwertyness85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋