I have a major crush on this guy wo I met a while back. he's really sweet and seems to flirt with me a lot ( when we meet, he touches my hair and my arms, and hangs out with me at parties all the time), but my cousin (who introduced us) is trying to set him up with another girl! I don't want to tell her that I don't want her setting her up, but how can i prevent this from happening? We're all getting together for a party on friday and she plans to set them up then. PLEASE!! I NEED YOUR HELP!
2007-01-13 22:27:23 · 15 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop being a jellyfish and go tell the guy that you'd love to go for a coffee sometime, or lunch. If you are so weak that you can't be bothered to go out and GET what you want, I guess you'll just have to sit by and watch someone else take the initiative.
2007-01-13 22:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll need to find out how keen this guy really! is on you .
you've not got much time , but perhaps a suggestion from you go out for lunch or tea , will give you a better opportunity to see if he's for real --- it may just be your imagination running away with you --- although us blokes are a bit slow on the pick-up --- it's that or you'll need to tell your cousin to back off this match-making --- it's your call . good luck
2007-01-14 06:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said tat hes hangs out wit u in parties,so stick wit him in the party,tel him wats ur sister up 2 or keep a look out n distract him when u c ur sis,tel him u want 2 go somwhere quiet then tel him hw u feel...
2007-01-14 06:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by nitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to beat her to the punch. Ask him out before the party so you arrive at the party as a couple and not just friends.
2007-01-14 06:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur sister he told u he doesnt like the girl she is planning to set him up with so no point
orr u could just get with him first
2007-01-14 06:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him first! Ask him if he is interested in if he says yes, tell him you would really like to go a date with him like to the movies.
2007-01-14 06:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can say something like"I kinda like this guy,and you introdused us to each other awhile back,can you maybe Not fix up anybody with him?"Good Luck!
2007-01-14 06:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you want to tell your cousin you are interested,I am sure being she's family she will want to hook you up instead! Good Luck
2007-01-14 06:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better stop her now before it's too late. Someone's feelings is gonna end up getting hurt.
2007-01-14 06:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by qwertyness85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's so bad about telling her that you like him? if you don't, then she sets them up, and you lose. not a major, life-threatning problem that i can see. either tell her, or sit eatching him hit it off, possibly, with another girl. what'cha going to do?
2007-01-14 06:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋