i was in love with my best friend. we ve been hanging out for like 5 years. but he told me some time back i would never be more than a friend and he was in love with his ex-gf.
i was depressed for ages, but i finally figured it was not meant to be and it took me a month to get over the immediate pain. i told him i need some time off him so that things could be normal again.
2nd week of timeoff... he right now texted me... he thinks about me all day... and misses me and things arent working with his ex.
i dont know what to do....
like i have some self respect... some dignity... he cant play with my emotions... or am i thinking too much?
2007-01-13 22:13:44 · 11 answers · asked by the alert 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is toying with you, wants his cake and eat it too.
2007-01-13 22:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow...im in a similar situation. but in mine, the guy is still involved. i try to distance myself. i like him a lot. i think i may even love him. but i don't put myself out there for him. i don't know what his intentions with me are. if he's sincere. if he's just confused. if he doesn's know how to breakup with his gf since they've been together for so long... i don't know. who knows what's going on in a guy's head. so what i do is.. i make everthing come from him first. i never text or call him first. he does that. i'm still a friend to him. i'm there when he needs me. i go out with other guys and he knows this. but when he says he misses me, i say i miss him too. but i don't let it go further than that. my plan of action is to make him think and make up his mind on his own. at the same time, i'm keeping my dignity, moving on slowly. who knows... "i go with the flow" so i guess you can try what i'm doing. goodluck!
2007-01-14 06:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by Gel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, that's a tough one. Looks like he misses your company. Or he just needs a friend because he's having a tough time with his girlfriend. Just be careful and be clear about what his intentions are. Don't either of you fall into anything romantic just to wake up tommorow and have him calling his girlfriend.
2007-01-14 06:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful you do not want to end up as side dish
he might be acting out of frustration and you come in just handy
you could also give it a try but have you eyes open and do not put your entire hopes in the outcome of this relationship
2007-01-14 06:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by lifeseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r thinking too much . Actions speak louder than words . If he wants u he'll come to u
2007-01-14 06:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! well in my opinion i believe you gave the answer yourself! i also believe you think too much!!! these kind of subjects doesnt have to do with anything but heart so brain comes second! dont think too much but just do how you feel!!
2007-01-14 06:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by abe_r1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BINGO! Don't live in this Guys embalance. Let him twirl around in his own confusion. You have Beauty, charm, intelligence. Don't stoop to his level.
2007-01-14 06:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, remember, boys r fool. They don't thing before say anything. Most of time they don't know he loves her.
2007-01-14 07:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure he loves you. at times you have to take time off. to bring out that love. so go for it
2007-01-14 06:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you may be thinking too much, and that's alot of strain -- maybe best to move-on
2007-01-14 06:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋