when you feel that he is a strange one from all the members of the family...........................?
2007-01-13 22:11:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can "hate" him as you say, but I do not think that you really do. You are probably mad at something that he did. BUT you still have to honor him as your dad, and he is the one that had part of bringing you into this world. One day you are going to want to talk to him, and he is not going to be around. Do you want to have those feelings the rest of your life? "Honor thy father and thy mother so that your days will be long upon this earth and that you will prosper"
(paraphrased)
2007-01-13 23:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see people say that sort of thing a lot on here, they hate their brother or sister or father and so forth. But really, they don't hate the person, they hate something that they do. I think you have to get to that point in understanding your feelings before you can move on to a constructive response to the situation.
2007-01-14 06:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
PLZ dont ever say that!!!! coz no one can hate his or her father, u too doesnt hate him believe me, he is the who has given u birth and brought u up and i m sure he has alwayz been with u when u needed him, i m 100% sure about that, i would suggest u that u dont need to like him jst dont hate him and jst think about the moments when he was with u and u guys had a nice time,think about hissacrifices, his love and affections u got, i m sure atleast u wont b able to hate him, and one thing for sure unfortunately if anything happens to him u will BE the ONLY WHO WILL MISS HIM THE MOST< BELIEVE ME
2007-01-14 06:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by StylishT 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have to work it out in some way or other...We make friends with many strangers in the day to day life.......so you cant feel your father as a ''stranger" and let go!
A father's love is great...u have to experience it in your life....Remember life is too short......we have only this very minute in our hands......
And think of what he is going through!!
2007-01-14 08:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by Morning dew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him for who he is, don't hate him for what he is not.
He is your father....can't you find something positive about him,
does he love you, does he take care of you....provide you with a home and food....I am sure there is something......:O).
To carry such hate will only hurt yourself in the long run.
Remember just because one is different they shouldn't be outcast.
Best wishes.....
2007-01-14 08:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't relate as I'm so proud of my father and I love him immensely
2007-01-14 06:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋