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i lost my mum 5 years ago due to lung cancer and my dad was left living on his own my dad is now seeing my mum is this true ?
Question Details: please help my mum past away 5 yrs ago and my dad has started saying that he was seeing all different people /ghosts in his bedroom and now sleeps with the light on cause of fear but recently has said that he has seen my mum but she is hiding is this true does anyone else no of any experiences they have had my dad is 75 and is completly with it why is my mum hiding or is my dad seeing things these things hes seeing dont speak to him but he claims he speaks to them please help im very confused!genuine people only

2007-01-13 21:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by smirdy_smird 2 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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you have to ask him alot of questions. where is she hiding, why, when did she go into hiding. unwrap it and you will find your answers through him. He is probably going crazy.


I know people who see there loved one and then minutes later here they are dead. you see them for a split second and then they are gone. like they are trying to say good bye.

if youre dad says he is seeing the ghost of your mom then I believe him. but why the night light. why is he afraid of his wife.

2007-01-13 21:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by fuck 3 · 0 1

sounds like your dad is basically less than pressure out over something, or he has countless unresolved pressure that manifests itself at the same time as he's napping. Sounds to me like he sees something at the same time as he's in a unmarried of those in-between states at evening -- you recognize, once you're nonetheless conscious yet your recommendations is drifting off into subconscious recommendations and aims. there is not any reason to convey any unprovable stuff about ghosts and spooks into it. He'd probable earnings from some counseling and/or anti-pressure medicine. Meditation can help, and so can solid bedtime conduct, like going to mattress mutually each and every evening, not studying or gazing television in mattress (making use of the mattress only for sleep), no snacks earlier mattress, etc. I had a extraordinarily rotten childhood, too, and also you do carry your scars into adulthood. I really have countless social pressure, and my issues often times flare up as actual indicators, yet human beings journey severe psychological and emotional misery somewhat. you will get a much better answer in a distinct talk board, although. it truly is "words and Wordplay."

2016-12-02 06:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by gnegy 4 · 0 0

My grandmother is 94 and she kept talking about seeing many ghosts in her bedroom. She is afraid to sleep in her room at night. She would also leave the lights on at night. One time I was told by a spiritual person that it was time for my grandmother to go 4 years ago but that she refused to. My grandmother acts like a child and frequently throws a temper tantrum. She is very mean and nasty to the people around her.

2007-01-14 01:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 3 · 0 0

I am really, sorry, for your loss, and your pain, it is not a very nice thing to go through, but there is some good news for you, not instant but good, nevertheless, if you want to know email me dudess@dodo.com.au

Often People say they have talked with the dead. The late James A Pike, a prominent Episcoplian bishop, said he talked with his dead son Jim. According to Pike, his son told him: "I have masses of people around me, and hands lifting me up, as it were.....I was so unhappy untill I could make you know."
Since such experiences are so common, it is evident that many people have spoken to someone from the spirit world. But they have not talked with the dead, The Bible is very clear when it says:"As for the dead, they are conscious of nothing at all."(Eclesiastes9:5) So if it is not the dead who are speaking from the spirit world, who are speaking? Who are pretending to be dead persons?
Wicked spirits are. These spirits or demons, are angels who joined Satan in rebellion against God. Why do they pretend to be persons who have died? It is to advance the idea that the dead are still living. Wicked spirits have also lead many to believe the lie that death is only a change to another life. To spread this lie, wicked spirits provide spirit mediums, fortune tellers and sorcerrs with special knowledge that only seems to come from persons who have died. So please keep away from those because they are used by wicked spirits and you will only get more heartache by listening to them, wicked spirits are wicked, and they only want you to miss seeing your mother again where as God promised he would bring back to life dead loved ones!and wipe away your every tear!(Revelation21:3-5).

2007-01-13 22:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 0 0

He needs a complete physical and mental check up. Actually, he's doing pretty well, as most men his age usually live only two years past the death of their spouse. Don't try to feed anything spiritual into this, in all likelihood, he's experiencing depression. Is he getting out and seeing people? Is he dating? Does he think you would disapprove if he did begin dating again?

2007-01-13 22:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A friend of mine lost her mum and she talked to her in her kitchen and the whole family thought she was crazy.If they see them and talk to them it may be the way they get over the heart break of losing a loved one

2007-01-14 04:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0 0

Your father was connected intimately with your mother for a very long time, and in losing her he lost a large chunk of himself.

If he wants to see her, let him. I think he's earned it. If he's dreaming about her or hallucinating, it seems perfectly natural to me. Tell him to put some flowers out for her or something to make him feel more at ease.

2007-01-13 21:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

theres no harm in him beliving that he sees his wife. after all the were togeather for so long. anyway who to say that hes not seeing her? I beleive in spirits. I really understand your fear though. talk to him. his his thinking on outher things ratinal? is he living a normal life in scociety? if not then mabey ild have him go in and get checked. If the only unusual thing is that hes seeing spirits then ild tell him to keep it under wraps and just talk to you about it.

2007-01-13 22:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should seek medical help for him without delay.

2007-01-13 22:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to to take him to a phyciatrist immediately he/she will help him

2007-01-13 21:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by akband 4 · 0 1

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