what would u do if one of ur so called friends was soooo drunk one night and attacked you by pulling your hair and squeezing your boobs and punching your arm and not letting you go, then while holding your head to the floor calling you every rude and crude name in the book. be adviced that i didn't do anything to this person and when i was finally let go i left and haven't spoken to her in over 4 months cause she hasn't said she was sorry, her excuse for not saying sorry is that she doesn't remember, would u forgive her, everyone else knows what she did so its not like i'm making it up there was witnesses and she still claims she doesn't remember so there is no need to apoligise to the whole thing. what would you do?
2007-01-13 21:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by jane_queen_of_jungle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think I could forgive her. She is not your friend if she thinks she can get away with not apologizing, although I don't think I can forgive her even if she does. I'm sorry but a person who goes violent under the influence has a problem and I don't think you should have anything to do with her.
2007-01-13 21:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey22_jp 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO, I would not let her get away with what she did. It doesn't matter that she was drunk. She made the decision to be drunk, and therefore she is legally and morally responsible for what she did. IF my good friend did that to me, I would've knocked the crap out of her so I could go call the cops. I would then have her arrested and press charges.
You can't get away with something just because you were drunk. Life doesn't work that way.
2007-01-14 10:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol causes people to do some very stupid things. If she refuses to apologize, it might just be her pride getting in the way of doing the right thing or she just doesn't want to take responsibility for what she did.
If I was in your situation, I would question my friendship. Do you really want someone like that in your life? If you care deeply about this person, give her a second chance. If her behavior continues, I would end the friendship.
2007-01-14 10:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♡twitchy♡ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, First of all, Its really sad & panic that your friend did this all those Wild things with you & she shouldn't be forgiven for this, But, I believe that, If she is your best friend & If she is the One with whom you like to share all your happy & sad Moments & close to your Heart. than i believe that, she should be given a second chance.In case if she has been really drunked & couldn't remember what had happen. But, If She Repeats again, than its better to leave her & stay away from her.
2007-01-14 05:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by optimistic29 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your 'friend' has a problem. I doubt you can help her. Keep a distance. Forgive? Yes, it's best for you. Then get over it.
Still, no matter what you might have done to 'make her do it' - she made a serious mistake and she has a real problem, might need professional help. (Don't become here enemy, just keep a distance.)
2007-01-14 05:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Azdak 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
She must have some problem bottled up, which came out when she was drunk, no i wouldnt put up with that, drop her and move on
2007-01-14 05:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by leigha 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should try to get her to see a doctor. there is something wrong with her. if she does not get it looked into, she may do future children the same way and not remember as well?
2007-01-14 06:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jez...alcohol is no excuse. Stay away from this crazy person. You don't need friends like this....ever. Don't let other people pressure you, follow your own instincts.
2007-01-14 05:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by Frann 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if i wer u... i wud talk 2 her politely... find out y she doesn apologise... its anyway obvious dat she remembers tho she was under de influence of alcohol....her mentality cud like dis.. "i don hav a valid reason 2 y i did dis 2 ma frend.... ma b cos i hated her!!or i envied her!!! i got irritated wid her!!!!nd moreover apologisin de mistake wud seem like am acceptin ma mistake!!! i jus felt like doin it that time.. nd i did it!!! is dat a gr8 crime???"... dats she is xtremely egoistic...its her ego dat stops her frm apologisin.. i wud advice u 2 speak 2 her politely... u hav try 2 find out de reasons y she had bhaved dat way!!!! u wil b surprised 2 kno the reasons!!!!
2007-01-14 05:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would continue to leave her alone. who knows what would have happened if a weapon were involved and you were permanently injured or killed - would she say then "oh i shouldn't go to jail b/c i don't remeber what happened!"? when people show you who they are, believe them. She seems a bit off center - crazy!
2007-01-14 07:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋