sorry i know its a little confusing, im just asking if its a good idea to reject someone by saying something on the lines of: you are beautiful and nice and i really like you but im already seening someone (even though im not) thx...
2007-01-13 21:19:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no...i dont like sugar coating things. heres how i do it
"no."
effortless, and they get the point.
2007-01-16 10:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥vegetarian♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks have under no circumstances meant a lot to me.. After the initial actual charm, if someone wouldn't have an pleasing, quick and interesting concepts they are only yet another knick knack that desires occasional dusting... i'd a ways fairly sit down and characteristic an smart communique with someone who would not comply with societal criteria of attractiveness than sit down with the most aesthetically pleasing human being questioning if the sound i'm listening to is my I.Q. dropping or the wind whistling by skill of their empty head... i'm in contact in people's minds.. :)
2016-10-31 01:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i thinks its cool but you should make it more gentle but you do have a way with words and that good but i think what im trying to say is that you should make the person who is going to get rejected feel that they are the one being too good for you to date them and that there is someone better for them out there and ya and if you feel that this is not working when you tell that person at the time save it by tellng them that they shouldnt change themselves for you because poeple will do that and ya that the right person will come along and maybe play cupid using one of your friends?
2007-01-13 21:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to sugar coat it. If you believe that she is beautiful, say so. If you don't then don't say it. As a matter of fact, most people know exactly how beautiful or intelligent they are, even if they don't want to admit it openly.
In the long run, saying the truth and speaking your mind will be appreciated. You don't have to be cruel, just truthful and direct.
2007-01-13 21:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Pepinos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being rejected is always hurtful, but I think the "beautiful person" line is good.
2007-01-13 21:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Theodore D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to tell someone that, but perhaps flip the sentence.
"I'm already seeing someone. You're beautiful, nice, funny and I really enjoy being in your company but I'm already spoken for."
2007-01-13 21:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by *Chinisu* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because they'll most likely see right through it.. If your gonna lie do it right or don't do it at all....... I just wanted to let you know that i'm sorry but we just can't be together.. I kinda didn't want to say this but I don't want to hurt you either.. I'm gay..... and I hope you don't think this is anything to do with you but I just didn't want to wait until later to tell you :) :) :)
2007-01-13 21:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a good way to put it but perhaps instead of saying your seeing someone you could say you just dont think of her in that way.. that way you arent lying to her.. lies always are found out.. trust me i know from a guy who did the same to me! x
2007-01-13 21:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and thank you for not stringing someone along
2007-01-13 21:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Samm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋