Well before you all attack me yes im married only stay together for business and children .
I really like this other woman i know she is un happy in her marrige to but how do i know if she likes me and im shy please help
and she lives in italy and im in australia i think i love her but i hardly know her so why do i love her and want to be with her help me .......
2007-01-13 21:10:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad to say, but it sounds like you barely know her. If you are truly ready to be in a new relationship, for better or worse, you need to terminate the current one and if she is married, do the same; otherwise it is just an unrequited fantasy that you both "blame" on your current circumstances, yet do not have the courage to leave.
It is much easier to try new relationship when you have the "safety" of the old one to fall back into as long as your current spouses don't get a clue.
That is why some "affairs" linger for years until a spouse on either side gets wise and terminates the relationship and the formula changes and many times the person that was in the "affair" is suddenly no longer that attractive as they are no longer "forbidden fruit" and then you expect them to be the lead and committed to the relationship, which obviously, they are not or they would not have cheated on their spouse with you to begin with!
2007-01-13 21:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chicken way out is to pursue someone else while still in a relationship. I think you are only interested because you are unhappy in your current relationship.
Why is that? Why do you not feel the same way as you did when you got married? If you can answer these questions, maybe you should attempt to revive these feeling.
2007-01-14 05:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by changafregada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up & fix your marriage up
You maintain a marriage like you do a car
how can a marriage run smooth if you don't do any thing good for it??
Treat your wife like you did when you first dated her & she will do likewise for you
I bet she was treated like a princess, well do it again !!
& also think of the pain you will cause your kids
it breaks their little hearts when Daddy doesn't love Mummy visa versa
2007-01-14 05:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to know if she likes u coz it won't make any difference,she is married,u r married
till u both get divorce then u can ask this question
2007-01-14 05:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋