If I lose weight, will guys like me?

Question

I weight 215,

I will weigh 145 when I am done.

Will guys like me more?

Answer 1

Whoa whoa whoa. You don't want a guy who likes you just cause of your weight/appearance. It's better to find a guy who likes you exactly how you are now. If you want to lose weight, it should be to make yourself happy with your apperance, not to get guys to like you. Trust me, looks will fade, and you want a guy who likes you for your personality, and will stick with you no matter how you look.

Answer 2

When i was 14 i was 220lbs i hated it i thought guys didnt like me because of my weight, but i didnt care, i wanted to lose weight because i hated not bing able to go into a store and find clothes that i liked, and i did not want to go to prom unless i was somewhat skinny (hated the way i looked in a dress) well i stoped eating fried food, junk, candy, soda, etc. and i walked everywhere, and drank a gallon of water a day in less than a year i was 155 i wore a size 10 and i looked great i felt even better, being so it showed in my actions, being more comfident in yourself really shows and guys love it. i then lost in add. 10lbs at 145lbs i wor a 5 im 5'3 and had a porn star body. my tummy was flat and i even had abs. mucsle weighs more than fat so 145 is a great size if you tone your body right. anyways , your question, will guys like you more of course... but what i learn the hard way those guys are shallow. i met my husband when i was 17 he is a great guy, i got pregnant and gain 100lbs so i was over 200lbs again but he did not mind im now back on my diet and have lost 40 lbs and i still look great. you have to be happy with yourself and guys will like you because of your personallaty not your looks also when i was in high school the guys i had the biggst crushes on never gave me the time of day when i was obease do you think i gave them the time of day when i got skinny? lose weight for yourself big girls get the nice guys, being skinny is just attraction to a man, do you want love or lust?

Answer 3

Well depends....you could get a guy who says he likes you more now because your healthier. A guy who likes you more, because he doesn't like big women. The world is full of so many people, the options are endless...all in all, I think you may get a little more attention from the guys (but is that good? It could be sexual-attention) I think you should look for someone who you are comfortable around and makes you comfortable. Also don't judge people by their looks, you could be putting down the most fantastic boyfriend/husband you may have ever had the chance to scoop up. Looks are 2nd on the ranking scale.

Answer 4

No matter how much weight you lose, if your attitude, self-esteem and self care are crappy, no one will like you for long.....I know a lady that had bypass and lost a lot of weight, but she is evil and unkept (no make-up, doesn't bathe regularly), has a manly haircut, poor manners, carries herself like a dude, is dishonest and a hypocondriac, has no self-confidence and eats like a nasty pig (even with the surgery, she eats mostly fast/junk food)...anyway, you get where I am going. She lost the weight and everyone still can't stand her.

I am overweight, but I eat healthy (I have fibromyalgia & rheumatoid arthritis, which affects my sleep patterns and ability to do more than 6 minutes of exercise a day...so I put on weight), I try and be kind, understand, unamanipluative and honest with people. I dress and act like a lady, show good manners, wear make-up and bath regualrly and believe in myself and I have a very handsome, built younger husband who adores me and thinks I am the sexinest woman on the planet.....I have dated many handsome men (everyone said my last boyfriend, before my husband, looked like Brad Pitt) and they have all managed to look past the weight issue and considered me very sexy....it's attitude and how you take care of yourself.

That being said, losing weight is a good idea, but only if you are doing it for yourself and to gain good health...don't do it just because you want to impress and get guys....that is a fleeting motivation. You must love yourself enough to want to be healthier....that kind of self-appreciation will shine as self-confidence which is a very beautiful attribute in a woman.

Answer 5

I am sure you must know the attraction that lasts between men and women is all about your personality, your attitude, your confidence. Chemistry and the click that happens when two people connect. Losing the weight might make YOU feel better then YOU will feel more confident, strong, sexy etc then you will feel more attractive to the opposite sex. So you might perceive that as guys "liking you more" but its more about you likeing you more. :)

Answer 6

We're all human beings, and sometimes I think that guys look for gurls who are "healthy looking" without bothering to look further in the inside. I think it's a shame. Not all guys are like that but some guys just want the skinnier ones. *no wonder there's a lot of anorexic girls...*

Answer 7

Well to sat the truth im 125 and my boyfirned wieghs 130 but hes a piece of paper so I am actuamacilly fatter than him but you can tell because of the clothes in the way but he loves me for me and they how guys should be. That may help but they still shouldnt like you for the was you look just remember that

Answer 8

145 isn't too light... go for 120... tats really good weight... well
215 is little heavy but you gotta have some confidence... there is always at least a person who will be your partner... you just gotta look for them and gotta have some gutts to step up and show your feelings... but as matter of weight 120 is very good for a girl... esp if shes like 5'5"

Answer 9

You must be loved as to what you are..

Answer 10

some guys like big girls....