I still in love with him but i know that this is better 4 me to say good bye, but at the same time i'm not sure to find better 1 as he was the kindest 1 i ever met .....
2007-01-13 20:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by roro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you should try a brief separation. You could also set him up with somebody else that you think might be right for him.
2007-01-13 21:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question you need to ask yourself is why do you think it is better to dump him? First of all it will hurt him if he loves you even if he says it wouldnt because you want it. He might be the kindest you've ever met, but is he the kindest you'll ever meet? I dont think so, love i great but sometimes you just have to let go and you already see that. you can ask for sometime off, this will make you really see if you r better off without him or not and i think this will make you really see if he is the one for you...
2007-01-13 21:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we have the same situation but i already said good bye to him but we remain friends. you need to find out what's the reason why u wanna say goodbye because u know yourself that u still love him..... if he's the kindest man u ever met, then maybe he's meant for you. i advice you to ask for signs or whatever, then maybe fate will help you decide.
2007-01-13 21:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well come on now!!!!! If you're thinking it, you know you want to do it! Its a rough spot hurting anyone, but if its gonna make you better then do it! If not, cause you seem to be a little unsure(and still in love) and if you have given your relationship as long to fall in love.....Why not give it a bit longer??? Obviously you still love!!!!!1
2007-01-13 21:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by dwntwnbadboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way of saying to someone that its over unless they have hurt you, and in your case they havent.
Explain that you need time out cause as your relationship is saddening you and that to stay with him longer would only make matters worse for you and for him ( nobody wants someone to be with them just coz they're scared to say its over) and you dont want to lose him as a friend.
But you feel you need to this for your own self-preservation.
Dont lie to him as for the reasons why you wish to end it as this will play on your mind and guilt is not a nice feeling. Being honest with him shouldnt make him lose respect for you.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 21:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way not to hurt his feelings is to say it straight!! yes there are other ways that might seem easier, e.g. making up a fight, but this will just mess his mind up more. be honest, u wont regret it.
2007-01-13 21:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hany S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a brief break from him and maybe you will realize that he might be the one that is meant for you
2007-01-13 21:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come to me
and iam waiting to you
2007-01-13 21:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by sleeping lion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋