So I dated this girl a year and met her sisters a bit....well it's been six months since we broke up, I've dated a few girls casually, made-out, so yeah I'm 110% over my ex of course. Anyway, first back in last late Sept. her younger sister who is 15 requested me as a friend on myspace, so I added her. Well my ex called me saying I need to delete her, that she's only 15 and I'm 22 and it's sick...I'm like she requested so I just approved it...what is the big deal? She said her mom asked why some older guy is on her friend's list. So I was like "whatever I don't even care, I'll delete her"---so I did. Well just tonight her other sister (this one is 17, almost 18) IMed my on AIM and we started talking for like 20 mintues about how I've been, what I've been doing, what she's doing, etc.
Anyway my question is why do you do her sister wants to talk to me...even if it's a little? Is it "sick" or is it fine?
2007-01-13 20:44:50 · 8 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not a good idea to get involved with a 15 year old if you are 22...if it leads to sex, you could and may be convicted of statutory rape in most states. If her parents are protective, they may even monitor her page to see your responses and if there is anything suggestive, file a complaint with the Police. You are too young to have "Pedophile" label on your shoulders, even informally. She is not worth it!
She is a child in a woman's body looking for adult male approval and if you are smart, you will avoid the whole situation.
The older sister, your ex, may just be contacting you and flirting with you due to sibling rivalry...again, unless your enjoy being in a high drama situation, should avoid!
It is not about you or even either of them liking you..it is likely you are just a "prize" in their sibling rivalry jealousy game.
Harmless to them, but give you are over the age of 21, coul have severe consequences not only now, but in the future if their parents get involved to end the situation legally.
2007-01-13 21:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go out of my way to really make sure these girls got NO chance with you, no matter how drunk or how naked. It sounds like they want to get laid and use you to do it. They are going to cause problems for you-they already are. Something about this just sets off warning bells in my head, and all I could think was how manipulative these girls are acting. I have a feeling the crap has only just begun to fly....hope I'm wrong, for your sake
2007-01-13 20:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not fine, it's the forbidden fruit. There is alot of competition between siblings. The girls most likely want to assure themselves that they could have it too. Leave it alone never mess with family or friends.
2007-01-13 20:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your Ex,s sisters are infatuated with you,its common you know, the younger siblings know you, as you said you and their sister were together for a year,its not a crime for you to talk with them.but i would seriously consider keeping the conversations to a minimum.if you continue you could be accused of certain things.you don't have to be rude just put them off..besides they are only young and no doubt they'll lose interest in you as soon as the next heart throb walks bye
2007-01-13 21:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by joejoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be able to "get" her to open as much as you. she would be able to open up if she feels comfortable - yet sounds to me such as you adult men have some themes that are complicating your relationship. the advice i could provide is - don't be a million) too desperate, or 2) too pushy. merely be your self, have a reliable time along with her - yet don't be throughout her in any way. ok, she has this loopy concept which you purely choose her for intercourse; properly, do not raise intercourse in any respect, shop your hands to your self, and luxuriate interior the communication. i'm not possibly particular what her issue is - i are not getting it how can a woman be with somebody for 2 years, and be confident that this guy or woman is merely along with her simply by fact of intercourse; that's merely stupid. It sounds to me like she, herself, does not be responsive to what she needs - and that's form of a destructive undertaking for you, as you would be able to desire to get your coronary heart broken very actual. merely be careful, ok. sturdy success.
2016-10-19 23:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the family its sick so leave it alone, you don't want the police at your house trying to take your computer and accuse you of other things.
2007-01-13 20:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do nothing till she's over 18 dude. just think of the drama that could follow. If she's worth it, why not!
2007-01-13 20:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by ATOM ANT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a talk is a talk, just cuz your older doesn't mean your a sick person, she's just trying to pick on you [ex]cuz...i dont know, she just has some issuse and is does not like you
2007-01-13 20:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋