I've been seeing this one guy regularly for almost a month now. We have a great time together, and he is a really nice guy.
The problem? He won't reach out to grab for my hand, and he hasn't kissed me on the lips yet. Yes, I'd go for the kiss myself, but I've never been kissed (and I'm over 25 years old), and I really want him to initiate it. Sometimes he'll look at me, and I'll think he wants to kiss me. On our last date he finally kissed me on the cheek, and I did the same to him.
Then there's also the question of how he feels about me. I think he likes me. We e-mail or call one another almost daily. He keeps asking me to spend time with him. He pays on our dates and is a perfect gentleman.
The thing is he came out of a very long term relationship recently (fiancee left him for someone else). He sometimes mentions her in passing, and I feel so jealous.
Does he like me? Should I just initiate the kiss myself? What do I do about the ex-fiancee?
2007-01-13 20:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by pinkyring2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, slow down. You said it--he is a gentleman--and that's a good way to be. He will do whatever when he feels the time is right. Don't gauge a relationship on a kiss or anything physical---be glad he is a nice guy. And all people are getting over a relationship of one kind or another---just slow down and be cool--let nature take its course.
2007-01-13 20:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an upfront, honest conversation with him. Most guys want you to just tell him how you feel and ask what he's thinking. I suspect he'll give you a straight answer. But don't spring it on him in an aggressive way. When you're in a relaxing setting, just bring it up nicely and tell him your concerns and you'd like to know how he feels on the subject.
2007-01-14 04:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been obviously burned and is moving very slowly. Take the initiative (but not too abruptly), he'll warm up in time!
2007-01-14 04:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wait for the man to make the move probley why i am single still . i say make the move when it feels right to you
2007-01-14 04:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by krista d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just want to take things slow as he more then likely got hurt previosly, so you need to respect that. things will happen just be patient with him.. or you could try talking to him..
2007-01-14 04:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋