I've been in this bizarre relationship with this guy for about a year. We have sex about every 2 weeks, but in between that, we don't even talk at all, but when we are together, there are sparks flying everywhere, it's not just sexual, we enjoy each others company & have great conversation. He always complains about how we don't talk in between the 2 weeks of not seeing each other, but he doesn't call. Yes he is seeing other girls, but he says that we have the best connection and says that he really cares for me. Is he afraid to commit? Or is he using me for sex?
2007-01-13 20:39:26 · 17 answers · asked by jessica.p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask ur self.... from all that u say .. it seems that he is just using you for sex.......chances of his being serious in this relationship are little
2007-01-13 20:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dump him. how can you be with a guy like that ?OK i know someone exactly like that, he was having flings with many girls and used to meet them alternately in every 2 weeks .same story and behaviour and later on when he did actually fall in love with someone he dumped them one after the other bcoz she found out and he had to chose between her and them so talk to him and before that find out your feelings for him . do you care about him and want commitment from him or you just don't want him to be with anyone which is very common in any kind of relationship serious or just physical. i feel that you guys just have sexual relationship and that's why you both don't call each other . there is no connection between you two.you guys get along well but you get along well with your friends too its more like two best friends who like each others company and are sexually involved that's it . think about it one more thing don't fall for that crap 'we have the best connection blah blah' ......guys are dogs he would be probably saying the same thing to the other girls .be sensible whatever you are into or are getting into don't fall for this guy crap at least you will not feel used . don't console yourself with this blah blah of his plz
2007-01-14 05:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not pretend that you too enjoy with him anytime you have fantastic hours of making love?..Seems both of you really got enjoyed and not be worried as long as you understand each other for sexual favors.There comes a time that your relationship will end so don't give up to move on..Life is worthless if not shared with anyone we are enterested on?
You are 100% right he is using you for his sexual hungers, and nothing more he will leave you in anytime..
2007-01-14 04:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a relationship like this and I let it continue while he saw other women and said he didn't want a commitment. Out of deep love for him, I continued to be his "sex slave." I got hurt so badly when he just blew me off like a fly. I am still hurt and will be forever. Get out now- he is only using you for sex. Some men are such slugs. You don't deserve this and HE doesn't deserve you. Tell yourself that and find someone worthy of your sweet love and devotion.
2007-01-14 04:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a good question . ! year is a long time. Don't u think u should ask him now ... why?Flying sparks & connections just don't happen in sexual relationships at least connections don't.Does he really care? I would think by now he would have told u?????????????
2007-01-14 04:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. And the, "best connection" with you and the other girls he is seeing too. He sounds like a narrcisist and your just supply.
2007-01-14 06:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by dejevuex2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is using you for sex, you are letting him. If you don't like it, get out. Only you can change it. I would dump him personally if he is seeing other people. I hope you are using condoms. You never know who he is sticking his penis in, you don't need a disease you can't get rid of.
2007-01-14 04:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he's not afraid to commit he just doesn't want to commit to you. Yes it's just the sex.
2007-01-14 04:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this man is playing you, and other women, like a chess board. Hope you make the right decision.
2007-01-14 04:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by 1 of 6.5 billion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt want a relationship with you than yes he's using you for sex.. are you using him for it as well or do you want a relationship with him?
2007-01-14 04:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by good things last 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋