Boundaries, frontiers, whatever, I'm not english.
2007-01-13 20:24:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me, personnally, whilst I never have been in love, I won't do EVERYTHING, there are boundaries.
2007-01-13 20:25:10 · update #1
and of course it's "there" boundaries, typo...
2007-01-13 20:25:43 · update #2
I made that mistake once already. I'm not stupid enough to do that again.
2007-01-13 20:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by .......... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are boundaries. This is reality, not some fairy tale. Those who do say they'd do anything are either very poor, very young, or about to be very poor.
Then there is family. I value family over a lover, unless somehow I find a girl who I will bring into my family. But for now, I am always stuck with my family while girls will come and go.
2007-01-14 04:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when I am in love the first thing I am interested in is not to loose my head that I may well maintain certain boundaries. And one of the most important boundary is sexual one... no sex before marriage.
2007-01-14 04:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Tere - educator & professor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great answer Olivia. Yes there are boundaries...I honestly told my boyfriend that I won't be able to do EVERYTHING for him.. I'm not gonna sit up and tell him things he wanna hear, I'm gonna be straight up with him. I love him to death but there's just some things I'm not gonna do. I'm not gonna do anything I'm not comfortable doing...and I want him to do the same for me. I want him to be completely honest with me and do something because HE wants to, not because I want to. I'm not gonna force anybody to do anything for me.
2007-01-14 04:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are boundaries. If you shouldn't do anything outside your moral values. You shouldn't be made to feel used or disrespected.
2007-01-14 04:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
see itz either love or no love......there nothin as in the middle of the two....love has no boundaries..and no frontiers....and ntg...baby!!!
but u gotta take ur steps slowly....and never to go to extremes until u r damn sure abt wht ol to do !!!!!!!!!!!
hope this helps u
2007-01-14 04:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nat$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in love and and no i wouldnt and dont do everything for him,there is no need.we do things together for each other because we want to..are there any boundaries?only when it comes to hurting each other and other people needlessly
2007-01-14 04:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by joejoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be 50/50 no one should do more for the other. Only in certain situations.
2007-01-14 04:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are boundries, but if they are also in love with you then they would never ask or expect you to do something that you didn't feel was right.
2007-01-14 04:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Tweekiebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never been in love, what the hell do you know about sacrifice? When you love someone, you'll do almost anything for them. But you'll find out for yourself when you're ready I guess
2007-01-14 04:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋