This guy is too too nice to me and I can't deal with it..I treated him bad and he still said he could never get angry at me and talked to me. Its my personality I need people to treally tell me their feelings not just like that and kind all the time. Is it rude to tell him don't be too nice to me? I really can't deal with him..I gave him a alot of drama before and now I think he disappeared on me but if he comes back can I tell him don't be so nice?
2007-01-13 20:09:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be honest with him but in a nice way..dont be 2 rude!
2007-01-13 20:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ainmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of telling him you are messed up, a novel idea would be to get some help for yourself. It's not a good thing to turn down a guy because he is nice and won't give you the satisfaction of a fight (probably a fight over nothing). Be glad that you have someone that accepts and loves you even though you don't really deserve it and find out why you seek drama over being content or happy. Life will be much easier and happier if you do.
Or maybe you should just let him go so he can find someone who is worthy of his kindness and love. There are so many woman that look for this man that you want to toss and maybe he will find one of them. Good luck to him and get some help!
2007-01-13 20:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best course. However it sounds like you have a lot of issues... I don't think he's the problem.
Don't sabotage this relationship! What you need is someone who is good to you...no one deserves to be treated badly. If he has put up with all the drama you have created...wow, you've got a special guy. You are obviously worth it to him. Work on yourself, not him!
2007-01-13 20:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by LaSperanza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be back because he's probably looking for someone who appreciates his kindness. Especially if it is sincere and that is just how he is, he should attract several women. He deserves to be treated kindly and if you can't do that then do both of you a favor and find a guy who will treat you bad. There's plenty of them and not hard to find. Your odds of finding an *** are GREAT!
2007-01-13 20:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to bit*h slap you a few times just to keep you happy
He is obviously too nice a soul to hang out with some one like you don't be cruel to him.
2007-01-13 20:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him and see how he feels about it. He might be able to work with it and it might be too hard for him to go against his true nature. Either way, it's always best to be honest. Good luck.
2007-01-13 20:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by ohare banana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a meany. It's not everyday that someone is too too nice towards another person. Just accept whoever this is for who they are.
2007-01-13 20:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by changafregada 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should tell him but don't be surprised if he can't. Most people are not able to be mean on purpose,especially if they like someone.
Find a Sadist. A Sadist will be mean to you.
2007-01-13 20:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell him how you feel. And be more nice to him. Afterall he's human too. heh.
2007-01-13 20:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by vielddd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you must tell him and it is necessary to tell him. Tell him nicely and make known your reasons too.
2007-01-13 20:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Tere - educator & professor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋